How to Avoid Parents do not Fight Children

in #steemiteducation7 years ago (edited)
Today, more and more news is spreading parental violence against their children. Many parents justify this action for delinquency reasons for children and children who do not want to obey it. Violence against children may occur due to the behavior of the ignorant parents themselves, especially in educating children. Violence in children, not permitted in any form, even regulated in state legislation. So how to prevent parents from breaking the child? Here's how

How to Prevent Parents from Violence Against Children


1. Increase religious knowledge

In every family, you have to practice the teachings of religion well. In any religious science, everyone is taught to do good to anyone.

A father, can not be a good leader for all members of his family. A father is also required to be an example and an example for all other family members. While the mother is expected to be a leader in the household affairs.

2. Communication is good

One way to prevent the occurrence of violence in marriage, especially against children is to make good communication between family members. In connection with this, the communication process must be done all family members and not just one side only.

In family life, there will always be problems that arise for several reasons. If you have a problem, it's a good idea to have a dialogue to solve it. Do not use emotion because it will only cause bad things and trigger domestic violence.

3. Ask people to be mediators

If there are serious family issues related to child delinquency or other child related issues, consult a more experienced person on how to handle the child. With the record, parents can no longer handle the child so need the help of others.


Forms of domestic violence Violence in the home may occur physically, emotionally, economically, spiritually and sexually.


(a.) Physical abuse

Physical violence is usually done to gain and retain power and influence victims. Physical violence, usually done by hitting, grabbing, slapping, kicking or even lighting a victim with a cigarette butt. Domestic violence can also be wounded with guns. Not infrequently victims of violence suffer disability or even to death.

(b.) Psychological violence

Psychological violence is intentional violence. This is done to make the victim suffer psychologically. This form of violence is to abandon humiliation, give spicy comments that make the victim feel depressed and others. Children's perpetrators should be punished for the deterrent effect and shame. This is done so that the offender does not repeat his actions again.

(c.) Sexual violence

Sexual violence is done by tricking someone into a child even by physically or psychically pressing. Forms of violence is by force or body hub.

(d.) Economic violence

Economic violence is carried out in various forms such as leaving people, prohibiting wife work, not providing for children and wives, and so on.

(e.) Spiritual violence

This violence appears in the behavior or teachings of principals who are generally involved with religious groups. Domestic violence, especially in children, can cause many problems to the child's condition. Those who are victims of violence, generally suffer from depression or stress. Not only that, but victims can also experience psychological problems such as fear and deep trauma.


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Regards, @mull


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