Why Getting Discouraged on Steemit is Silly and How You Can Start Loving it Today

in #steemit7 years ago (edited)

Yesterday was an amazing day, between the hard fork & the support of so many of you. My rewards shot up, and I went to bed totally filled with gratitude and hope at what may come of my commitment to Steem. I can't tell you what this means for an artist that has been hustling hard for years with very little financial support. It's the kind of thing that could literally change my life right now.


Today, although I posted very similar content, my rewards are very low so far (although I'm seeing great interaction from my followers--thank you!).


The point here is not a pity party, but this: Steemit is inherently unpredictable, and that is the element that should make it fun. We shouldn't let it ever discourage us, because that unpredictability is precisely why the "little guy" can hope to do well, even against the odds, especially if a person works hard and produces great content. The fact that, at any moment, one of your posts could blow up and secure all of your bill payments for the month is incredible. (Especially when you think of the amount of time and energy you have spent on other social media sites (not to be named!), not for free, but for a HUGE cost of your privacy and being treated like a commodity to be advertised to.)


The flip side of that, of course, is that sometimes you'll have low-reward days. Sometimes, I imagine, you will even have full weeks that will lull a bit more. Other people get a chance for their glory days, too.


It will be crucial for new users, and even older users, to not get overly attached to the money aspect of things here, and not depend on it as a predictable income, but to keep the right perspective--the humble, grateful one. The fact is that this is the best social media platform for having a fair shot at growing an authentic following and having intelligent, kind, supportive people to back you up as you try to grow and reach the world. Was anything else you've tried even remotely like that? Seriously?


If money stays as the nice addition, rather than the thing that drives us, we will always maintain a disposition of gratitude and joy, no matter how we are "doing" on the platform on a given day.


I have spent countless hours writing blogs, editing photos, writing friends asking for support, etc., on other social media platforms and have been met mostly only with discouragement. It's been really hard on me, especially when I feel like I have something real to give. Worse than not being paid for a real skill that you believe will bless people, is just seeing them not even bothering to read or listen (this is why I refuse to play at bars, for example.. the same dynamic.)


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(Me on my daily walk on country roads)


On Steemit, people are attentive and interactive in incredible ways. I've already had people go and download my free songs on my site and some have even donated. It has been pulling teeth everywhere else to get people even to listen.


So, especially if you're someone who is new and just starting to "grow," I really encourage you to keep focused on the many impressive things on Steem that make it such an authentic and quality experience, and invest in it with the big picture in mind--both for you, and for the platform. The more we keep the focus the joy and goodness that is very real here, the happier and bigger user base we're going to have.


And that in turn subsequently actually means more success for us all, even financially.


Keep your chin up and your head screwed on, team. Keep interacting and encouraging others (yes, share that upvote when something is good), and go enjoy scrolling all of the interesting content! We need to cooperate for this thing to keep working, so dig in, rain or shine, reward or not. You know you'd just waste your time elsewhere online anyway, right?


Xx, Kay










(All work on my Steem blog, in any presented form, is always copyrighted, so in your interests and mine, please use proper attribution. Thank you ALWAYS, sincerely, for your love & support, in whatever way you can give it.)

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I needed to "hear" that. After the hard fork, my stats moved up but nothing else did. No matter, I'm having a lot of fun and knowing that this place is censorship resistant ---and free from big business advertisers--- is freaking AWESOME. Thanks!

Really happy it was encouraging to you. That was the hope!

Omg! How beautful are you? Thank you for all of your words of encouragement. I've noticed the bloggers here that stand out to me are the one's that genuinely desire to give to this wonderful community. I only signed up last Friday...I signed up because I noticed the potential to reach out to the world, and not only that, it's governed and enforced by good people, with some really good talent! Mainly though, I signed up because I felt a wonderful positive vibe...somewhere where we as a "whole of Steemians" could collaborate and send our positive message to the WORLD! And this, we haven't even touched the tip of the iceberg! Anyhow, I just feel fortunate enough to be a part of it! Stay beautiful @kayclarity ! Spread da Love Yo!! ✌❤

oh fuck yes peazful, I dig it. AHHHHHH SMILE CHALLENGE!!! damn I knew I liked you.

Thank you for one of the sweetest comments! Really. I am touched. It's a wonderful, new world. I feel so blessed. XX!

Good morning @kayclarity!🌞🌺 It truly is....🌏💚 I ask if you'll join me in a wonderful attempt to reach out to other's like ourselves who just want to send a positive message to the world.....would you please join myself and @itchykitten and participate in my SMILE challenge and re-STEEM? Together we can have an enormous positive impact on the world, and I'd be honored if you would kindly join in...🙄

https://steemit.com/photography/@peazfulman/all-i-m-asking-for-is-a-smile-it-s-steemit-s-1st-ever-smile-photo-challenge-by-me-peazfulman

Stay beautiful @kayclarity and have a wonderful day....Spread da Love Yo! 😁✌

i tend to get frustrated from time to time and needed this. thank you and followed upvoted etc

These are the best comments I've been getting. It makes me realize we have to keep each other motivated as we go. I honestly believe there is potential for everyone to do well--especially if you're here now on the semi "ground floor" of this thing before it REALLY takes off. Thanks so much for your support. Xx, Kay

Nicely said. Followed

Thank you! I really appreciate your support.

Very well said. In this platform it is a matter of insisting day by day and gradually creating something big, go ahead with everything you can! :D

I'm glad it resonated with you! Slow & steady wins the race, I think--as long as you're committed and produce the best content you can.

Any money is more money than we were making on other social media sites, and the community here is, well, awesome! I'm glad to be on here on low upvote days and high!

I love your attitude :). People like you keep it great!

Life is about giving, whether encouragement, smiles, upvotes :) (haha) and never expecting anything in return. I think it makes for a gentler life that way. I actually just wrote a post right now about giving haha

most likely the votes are being held back now that they are worth more.

I had read that on here a bit. We will have to see how this unfolds. Frankly, with mine up, I am considering taking my automatic upvote off.

People have to know that if that happens, the whole thing will collapse. They will likely have to put a limit on how many upvotes you can give yourself/the same person. Of course there are ways to get around that (multiple accounts), but at least it will make it harder for the average user to abuse the system.

i don't think the system will collapse as a result of less votes being made - it just means that fewer posts will get voted on and so, in theory, only the better ones will get voted on and they will receive more.. so that rewards quality over quantity. the old way favoured whales, the new can still be exploited by whales, but at least edges more towards balance.
i think the streemian app lets you change the weight of your votes - so you don't use all your power on each vote - so there's no actual hard limit involved.. although i don't use that app as it requires you to give over your master password.

Ah, gotcha. Well.. that's hopeful! I wouldn't hand mine over either.. apparently when you hit a certain threshold there is an option within the site.

ah ok - i see, i don't know why they set a threshold for that feature - maybe it will be available for all in the future.
~ just listening to you sing here - you have a great tone and expressive voice :)
fooollloooooooweeeeed :)

Yeah, I would actually like to put mine at half so I could support more people--at this point, my upvote means more in terms of encouragement rather than the few pennies I can give!

Wow - thank you for taking time with my work! I really appreciate the encouragement and support. This place is amazing :) xx

you are welcome!

I couldn't agree more. I think many get a bit excited about being able to make money blogging about the things they like or do. I suppose it's easy to get wrapped up in it. But it's true there will be good and bad days.

Thanks for your comment. Of course it's exciting, and I wouldn't tell anyone not to be excited and to put effort into making money on here! It's just about maintaining the right balance and perspective, and just being grateful this thing even exists--and that we are in so early on something that will likely explode.

Thanks for the motivation :) It is discouraging to have your posts not appreciated if you've put in the effort in writing it. Then again, that's the same anywhere else. If we stay consistent, I believe we'll make it some day.

Yes. It really is that way everywhere else--but with very little hope of ever doing better! This place honours hard work and talent. Keep it up :)

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