RAPE , WHY FORCE THEM WHEN THEY SAID NO?
As human beings, we are faced with many life challenges. We deal with some and some are beyond our control. We have read, seen cases of forceful 'mating' by men on women. You wonder what kind of 'evil' could prompt a forceful penetration of an innocent lady. Is this act learnt from friends or they are just normal way of doing things that ladies have to cope with? What about similar cases on man? Oops! You are wondering if men are raped too?
Without leaving the crux of this piece, lets look at the idea of rape and what it involves.
Rape! what is rape? To my own understanding it is an act of forceful penetration. Rape is a cognizant procedure of terrorizing wherein culprits keep women and girls particularly, in a condition of steady dread. Rape depreciates the casualty. It is a crime which derides the feelings, a crime of affront, persecution and reprisal that should be rebuffed on the grounds that an attacker is a criminal and all violations and their recipients must be rebuffed.
Rape and different types of lewd behavior require the pressing and genuine consideration of family, foundations, common society gatherings, government and the universal group in the event that we truly need to guarantee a brutality free society for all.
It is a seriously an awful ordeal that disproportionally influences women. However there is restricted data regarding the matter in our condition.
Boys, girls , men, women, all face this circumstance, not simply just female gender, possibly the male sexual orientations don't turn out to state they are assaulted in light of the fact that individuals will judge/question their prowess.
quoteWe must send a message across the word that there is no disgrace in being a survivor of rape. The shame is on the aggressor by Angelina Jolie
Most victims hardly come out to tell individuals what they experienced, Some guardians barely set aside a few minutes in having a personal discussion with their kids, Most African guardians/parents shy away from this duty, if we don't interact with our kids they won't confide in you. That brings my question : when is the appropriate time to talk about sex related theme with your children? Shying away from this can imperil their lives.
To what extent will this continue in our society? People tend to accuse the victim, they ask you questions like for what good reason did you visit him? Why did you go such a forlorn place alone? They continue asking why yet enable the assailant to walk freely? Affirm that aside, now let me ask, a 6months old do you need to scrutinize her? If we can't bring the evil perpetuators to Justice who knows what they will do next? The fault shouldn't be on the casualty, recall that she is the victim here. This needs to stop as it makes me extremely upset to see a video of a six months old baby being assaulted by a man who is mature enough to be her dad.
Oh! I weep cos it brings back memories. Sorry I am this enthusiastic, the flashback continues coming as I keep seeing more victims .
Thanks for reading
@sweetestglo-eu
this trend is terrible ... especially raping little babies in the name of healing which was evident in some African countries... rape in any form is bad but it is part of deviant behavior that has been with man kind since long BC...however, the bad side is there are serial rapist who even use drugs ... rape drugs to drug victims even in clubs and take them home...after they will not even remember what happened... i will blog on same subject with some innovative ways to punish or deter rapist in my future blog...meanwhile.. take a peep on my latest post on human breast milk ...if good or adults...
thanks for this...keep it up...upvoted 100% as always
Thank you for always stopping by, will def check it out.
Welcome dear...keep up the steem!
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In as much as there is no justification for this stupid act, young girls should desist from wearing clothes that exposes what should be hidden and also avoid high risk areas at odd times.
You're justifing such an act, now tell me, a 6months old that is wearing pampers what do you tell the her, or a 5 years old that was raped? Jeeeezzzz
@sweetestglo-eu everybody is entitled to their opinions (whether 'st*pid' or reasonable). You chose to share this with the community and you ought to understand that it is a delicate issue that will generate mixed reactions. So it is logical to only counter the claim without using the word above.
Kindly edit your comment above.
You completely misunderstood my statement, the above statement is not and should not apply to children. In 2011, a young girl in my area claimed to have been raped by a man who leaves close to the street, police was involved and the young man was released after few days because the police investigator (a woman) found out that the girl involved is always putting skimpy and other dresses that according to police are tempting. Therefore the case was closed.
When we are making claims or defending a position, we need to be very clear. Your reply on skimpy cloths is a justification for why people should rape and a hindrance to people's freedom to dress. Nobody is saying girls should dress naked but what kind of cloths can a small girl wear to tempt a responsible man into raping her?
The society has rotten that we attempt to justify anything under the disguise of making claim.
For me, no 'true' rape case should be seen as the fault of the victim. The evil in the accused should be dealt with.
Thanks.
You're still justifying it, its your decision tho... @smyle i have edited it, sorry i had to let my emotions cloud my sense of reasoning. @dubem i apologise.
There is no justification whatsoever for those who indulge in the act of rape. Since rape is associated with violence, it can only be practiced by deranged men whether temporary or permanent. Jesus Christ is the answer.
Thanks for reading .
Strictier measures need to be put in place to check this criminal act
Such an important topic for awareness and discussion, thank you for posting.
Hmm..... Tears stream down my eyes as I read this and memories from the past floods my angry soul. Years ago, a little girl of six in my son's school was raped by a neighbour of theirs( a banker). This horrible act went unpunished while the little girl has been forever marred. Thank you for the exposition.
Would share a similar post too...
The shameless attackers go scott free , you can imagine and someone is justifying such actions..
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I personally detest whoever try to force a woman to himself much less of one who rapes. If I had the chance, I would castrate anyone I find guilty of the said offense. Rape is a disgrace to manhood. Also I think the act is satanic or demonic. We also need combat it with prayer.
The horror of rape is terrible. It is one of the evils of the society. For me, both the act and the actor evil. Many suggestions have been made on how to rid society off this rampaging menace. Many in this part of the world (Nigeria) have suggested castration for the male actors which i am fully in support.
However, you might be wondering if deterrent has actually served its purpose in the past? What about the female actors? What should be their punishment? For me, the society needs to stand strong and rid society of this evil from its root.
Genital mutilation should be their punishment of which must cases leads to death, high risk of infection.. Thanks for stopping by.