THE TRUTH ABOUT WHY RELATIONSHIPS FAIL

The truth about relationships/Marriages and why they fail.

When most people get together in the early stages of a relationships there are fireworks and you usually cant keep your hands off each other but as time goes by weeks, months , years or even decades you may see yourselves growing slowly further apart until one party has slowly gone through the phases of not being as intimate, accepting your bad habits, buying you gifts , and of course a decline in intercourse which may have even got to the point of no intercourse at all anymore!😭

The truth is and usually they don’t tell you why until either they’ve already cheated on your arse or they’ve checked out completely of your relationship.THEY ARE BORED!! 😕

Now there are always exceptions but I believe in many relationships that the biggest killer is if there’s NO CHALLENGE. Now this doesn’t mean you have to be an arse, just use the word NO more and don’t let the other person get away with everything that they want. Go out, be busy ,be more interesting and mysterious. Once a relationship gets to a sexless one it will be very difficult if not impossible to re-ignite that flame. 🔥

But the good news is if things haven’t quite got to the stage where the other half has imposed an injunction on you not to come anywhere near them then maybe there’s still hope for you.

The reason why couples stay together could be one of many but I believe the main reason is SECURITY, this could be financial, house, Kids together or just the fear of being alone and not finding anybody else. That’s why many times one will not leave a relationship for good until they have lined up a replacement.
It also depends on the morals of the individual.
Also, sometimes one will get complacent and not do the things they did at the beginning of the relationship like taking their partner out.

Marriage, moving in and having kids kill challenge but you can still maintain a certain level of it which can help but if you avoid challenge at all costs then your relationship will likely over time slowly go down the toilet.🚽

I’m sure that most relationship counselling professionals don’t mention this type of stuff but if you are thinking of visiting one then maybe its too late anyway. Some people even propose marriage when things are going down the pan but that is just out of fear and desperation of losing their partner forever and not something I’d recommend doing.
The definition of insanity is doing the same things over and over again expecting different results so unless you change something in your relationship how do you expect things to get any better.

I hope you enjoyed reading.