The Paradox Of Sexuality: The Challenges Of Sacred Relationships
Most people are 'serial monogamous' and relationships end when failing to see beyond Dualism (each side blaming the other), highlighting that the institutionalization of having a life-time partner has always fallen short. We are all, to some various degrees, indoctrinated with 'happily ever after' Disney-like fairy tales, which later on turn out being detrimental to our life projections because of the fixations instilled from a very early age. Fixations makes one regress.
Serial monogamy (several monogamous relationships) though will only have a positive outcome if the perception of the Self can expand through each relationship, otherwise the next relationship is condemned to repeat the mistakes of the previous one.
The Trap of A Lifetime Organically Wired Faithfulness
Nowadays, seldom are those 'organically wired' for a lifetime of 'spontaneous faithfulness' and it is most likely 'cosmically designed' to be this way. Mainly because every mind is unique and that we all have a different level of Awareness. Not to mention that our environment is a serious obstacle in the sense that society has made sure that 'sexual desire' and 'competitive seduction' control people's attention span almost 24/7. And if one doesn't realize that, finding the way out from the maze is not a sure thing. This is such a mantra that many cannot imagine how any romance would work without it. There lies the first challenge of anybody aspiring to start a Sacred Relationships has to come to term with: let go the erroneous social construct which has turned "fuel burning" (sexual energy) into an ideology, and which is why most relationships are plagued by jealousy and low self-esteem.
A Sacred Relationship is by definition, an interaction between Lovers expressing their feelings with the Heart first as explained previously in The Advantage of A Secret relationship. Faithfulness will remain spontaneous as long as the pair can thrive regardless of the daily challenges and able to operate on the same wavelength or frequencies. There lies the 2nd challenge: Lovers have to evolve in sync whatever the pace of the moment, that are the Natural Laws of Rhythm and Vibration that defines the harmony. Knowing and sensing when it is either time to give or receive. Giving and Receiving must even out as much as possible. When the Rhythm stops flowing or becomes kind of dissonant, it generally indicates that a time has come for a break. All relationships need it. The difference here is that a more conventional form of relationship would immediately see it as a drama and possibly a threat, while a Sacred Union would encourage it. Taking a break does by no mean means 'time off to fool around' but doing something quite unusual to restimulate one's own psyche and the pace of the swing between partners. Any pendulum will eventually go back to its Stillness, it just is a matter of time. And the same aspect happens between partners. Life is about the healthy stimulation of both polarities, male vs female. Even in homosexual relationships, there always is a partner that is either more 'yin' or 'yang' than the other. So it is up to the reader to adjust what is being said here.
People who feel ready for a Sacred Relationship have to project their intent, and be willing to explore the potential without any rush because such an interaction is not about compromises but the comprehension that living as a pair requires a good sense of emotional independence and creativity.
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