The Paradox Of Sexuality: Force vs Power | Part 2 Of The Mind Series

  Every pair must become one in order to again become two.   Men and women do not escape this two-way reciprocatve  law. Each becomes what the other is. Both are always compromising each  other's unbalance. If the two unbalances are equal and opposite, each  type will survive and grow mentally,   spiritually and physically. If the two unbalanced mates  are unequal in their opposition, the penalty is degeneration -  mentally, spiritually and physically. The quality of one mate is a  compromise with the quality of the other ---  Walter Russell

Today the number of people consulting shrinks is absolutely staggering, and even though all couch-therapies lead to the sensitive examination of emotions and Sexuality, therapists have a little understanding - if none at all - of what is going on on a cosmic dimension and whose effects are directly observable as its Prime Cause is 'Electricity', without which the Universe wouldn't hold together. Being also the Blood of the Universe, Electricity rules over every existing atom, including the very Field of the Mind as neurons electrically process emotions in a fashion that is therefore dual by nature.

A disharmony in thought processing instills a lack of critical awareness. Such a brain is of course a lot more prone to be influenced as it has to cope with the same polarization mirrored by the environment back to it. A balanced brain is characterized by its flexibility to weigh downsides and upsides in any train of thought as nothing is neither entirely true nor false. Too much optimism often blinds one and too much negativity often initiates a radical change for the better. The philosophical issue at stake here is the following: Do we really need to go through states of blindness and radical changes? Since our physical reality implies that perfection doesn't exists, the focus on limiting as much as possible their occurrence should remain a priority at all time as it would make us happier as a result. 

Relationships are an extension of the Self. Emotions are holographic. Crises happen when the thinking sticks to old or rigid paradigms preventing Awareness from expanding, causing not only collective but individual history to repeat themselves. Consequences are often quite harmful. By adaptation to change it is meant coming to term with what it is that cannot be changed or finding a compromise. So when a Mind continually seeks and welcomes new approaches, it can rightfully be assumed that such a Mind is in a state of Self-Love, and of course has more Free Will. After all, the only Free Will that exists is the willingness to notice or not. Being humans also implies that perfection cannot be attained but knowing about such Mechanisms, greatly improves the quality of our perceptions of the Whole and is thus enhancing inner and world peace. 

Most people in a romantic relationship do not achieve Self-Love but rather seek a confirmation of their own subjective reality whereas Self-Love is an objective state of being continually challenged by deeply polarized social frameworks. As a matter of fact, until age six or seven, children record everything they hear and see as if in hypnosis mode. Our reward based system is a program. The latter too often determines the later life and makes Self-Love appear as a fantasy steadily eroding a relationship. The lack of Objective Self Image eventually leads to the realization that Lovers appear different over time from who they were in the beginning - but in the process they will gain insight about their polarized selves and be given the opportunity to change if they want to. 

In order to avoid the Lust and bondage entanglement, relationships cannot be approached with the gullibility found in movie cliches associating Sex with a miraculous band-aid formula. As a matter of fact, the more Lust at the beginning of a relationship, the more abrupt will the awakening be to the fact that it isn't. This because Sexuality is a paradox onto itself. A Force and Power at once. With Sexuality comes easily the idea to possess one another. To remain a Force and lead to expansion, its Metaphysics must be comprehended. There is no such a thing such as an innocent little fun, unless expectations are stated clearly from the very beginning, before the first intercourse. 

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 A New Mindset to Defeat  Conventional Psychology And Quit Escaping From Freedom | Part 1 Of The Mind Series 

 Earth Custodians call for the adoption of a different  way of  thinking to promote conflict resolutions. Different but not new, because  such concepts were already debated  two thousands years ago: they are  keys to grasp the unhealthy mechanics driving people's need  for power  structures, and as how to overcome them as well.