The first stages of self-development

The first stages of self-development

It is sad to see a woman held hostage to socio-cultural patterns of behaviour. It is not difficult to understand why a man does not take a woman seriously or on equal terms, because she herself refuses to live and is limited to various games. A woman plays in life, in marriage, in love, in work. A woman used nothing is taken seriously and is pinning its hopes on a man. 

A huge number of women devote all their efforts, time, imagination and feelings to care for their own appearance in order to find the appropriate man, emotionally cling to him and feel confident. Therefore, women are so fond of studying the love relationships of their friends, acquaintances, movie stars. They find out which methods are used by other women to find and keep a man. 

Women are constantly improving their ability to attract, so they have neither the time nor the desire to engage in the development of internal values and the realization of themselves as individuals. Woman close to heart perceive any amorous history, and is beginning to to compare themselves with the heroine of the and even continues to copy its behavior.

Women who cannot do these banal things because of their work often feel deprived of their destiny, unhappy and "unwelcome".

To be successful, a man must focus on himself. And for women goal life-physically and emotionally hook up to prejudice any a man and to live through him.

It is imperative that women understand one thing: there is no need to ask permission from men to be released from male custody and to achieve equality. All you have to do is achieve psychological autonomy and develop your own potential.

A woman is perceived as an object due to the fact that consciously or unconsciously it is considered that she is empty and powerless. This stereotype does not surprise anyone, we are used to seeing luxury models with atrophied brain, and for men they are the most desirable. Seeing such success, women want to imitate them, as well as dress and behave. as a result, every day a woman becomes less a person and more an object.

 What is the difference between a personality and an object? While the object has only the outside is just a thing, a personality, to be such, must have an inner life. A woman has to work on herself to become a personality.