I couldn't count how many times I've heard people say 'I'm a good judge of character' or similar lines;

The wins outnumber the losses heavily because for the most part, they jusge and move on without ever getting confirmation. That means the judgement failures are buried under unsubstantiated victories.

our 'self' is capable of far more than we can possibly imagine until the day we're exposed to ourselves actually doing it.

Only at the point of judgement can one know what they are capable of or, the defiance possible at the cost of all else.

Thank, for taking the time, it is appreciated.