Following Our Passions
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7 years ago in #philosophy by clayboyn (70)
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I was thinking something not-disimilar when I read this story, where people who choose not to live their entire lives in line with maximal materialism are criticised because this means they don't pay enough tax. Whatever else you might think about whether or not we have an obligation to contribute to things via taxation, to see someone (or yourself) as just a means to an economic end strikes me as pretty dehumanising.
Agreed. The only way to change the system is to stop perpetuating it.
@clayboyn I actually connect with you there. The people closest to us can be the one to put the greatest resistance on our paths and thickest doubts in our heart if we are not strong enough to continue on our journey of what we hold as right for us knowing that at the end of the day we suffer the consequences alone. I have experienced this many times firsthand.
On two separate occassions, i have seen family members that i love so much sit me down, twice I have almost lost my girlfriends (encouraged by their mum) because I decided to be a ghostwriter (working from home) instead of getting a job. They just couldn't wrap their head around having me sit down inside the whole day (from an office i made out of my rented apartment) and make money. To them i am lazy, unconventional, unadventurous, stupid, and unambitious.
When i quiz about ambition, it is all wrapped around getting a "dignified" job and that isn't that while i was sent to school and i hold a BSc in Engineering?
Before my fiancee's parents, i was always asked at any point of meeting them, "what's that your thing about again?" And i know it isn't that they do not remember but only to taunt.
Well, Four years plus now i have been on that lane. I am happy, made many's people dreams of becoming authors come true. I have stuck my head out and it is getting better everyday.
Thanks @clayboyn for this.
That's awesome to hear!
Hi @clayboyn do you online in discord? I hhave one question from you
"Choose a job you love and you never have to work a day in your life" is attributed to Confucius. IMO there is a lot of wisdom in this.
I applaud your decision to pursue what inspires you. Monetarily providing for family is necessary but not sufficient.
By example, we teach our children what holds real value in life.
Truth.
Interesting post. I certainly agree that going after the money creates a scarcity mindset. It's never enough! After a certain point and a certain level of comfort, diminishing returns sets in too.
I like to identify what I'm passionate about and then focus on creating smart daily habits that build on that passion.
I also find that the more I work on something, the more passionate I feel about it.
The work is its own reward.
I’ve seen far too many people destroy themselves and the people around them in some endless pursuit of money. It neve matter how much they made they wanted more at whatever cost. They gave up family, friends, hobbies, and happiness for something that was supposed to somehow fill that void that kept getting bigger.
The only thing sadder then this is when they imploded at some point then abuse themselves with all the money they have just blowing it in such stupid and silly fashion that they would have never in a lifetime have done before. Which tends to bring them even further unhappiness.
There a difference between wanting to be a good member of society that works to pay off any debts owed, do the right thing, and get to enjoy the fruits of your labor. Then there is this ugly thing called greed that will devour your entire soul just for some pieces of paper.
I’ve had people tell me often “I want wants best for you” and you see what that did to them and you just can’t help but fell – the hell you do.
Right, I experience it worst with my parents. I get that they want what they think is best for me, but that doesn't make it what's best for me. People justify all kinds of stupid shit for some idea that they need things they don't. I just reserve the right to find my own path. Thanks for stopping by @enjar!
The worst is when someone weaponizes that statement of 'I just want what's best for you.' There has been times where I get it and I see the message they are trying to deliver, but the strings attached? I hate it. The whole "you need to do A in order to B or else C. Fuck dat, naaaameeeeeen. What they mean is "I am associated with you so I want you to feet my mold(or else.)" Been there, done that, bought the shirt, it was itchy and smelt like budussy and truffle butter. 😝 Great post 😃
Nothing worse than weaponized agendas based on the illusion of love and good intentions.
Clayboyn! Awesome post my friend : )
I dont necessarily think someone saying "I want whats best for you" is always them saying "I want what I think is best for you." It can be said genuinely and without bias.
I do however agree on your point that discovering what is best for you is a job only you as the individual are capable of doing. We have a responsibility to ourselves that only we can fulfill, at to expect another to fulfill that responsibility for you is both foolish and detrimental to both parties.
My most recent post and yours here actually compliment each other quite nicely as a matter of fact : ). Would love to see if you agree.
Great work as always my friend, please keep it up!
I agree, it's possible to just share our opinions with someone else with pushing them to pursue what we think they should be doing. I suppose it's really up to the individual that is saying it to know their own intentions and manage their own expectations as well. Like there is a difference between telling someone you think they need to get sober and you think they need to go find a job that they don't want to do because they need the money. The statement itself isn't necessarily aggressive or toxic, it's more about what comes afterwards and how we handle it. Mindfulness is key for sure. I'm in a meeting but I'll check out your post in just a bit, happy to hear from you!
Agreed with everything my friend, good luck in your meeting and looking forward to it!
Man, this hits close to home. I've been working at a job I really can't give my all to, like I want to do well there, I'm capable enough to, but it's just not something I enjoy.
I think about all my other passions while I'm there, knowing I could be making myself happier by giving more to people in ways I am passionate about. The one thing really holding me back is my mortgage, but it might just be worth it to quit and find a cheaper place to live.
I think me and my girlfriend could do it and she supports me, so these next few months I'm trying to generate some income and start working on personal projects that could develop into passive income streams for me.
I really feel like I could be giving so much more if I had the time to do it. Thanks for putting it all into perspective for me. I gotta break out of this, all it brings me is security and I'm just stagnating
Best wishes and I hope you see it through and all works out for the best.
Thanks man, currently reading crushing it so and finding motivation in unlikely sources... Like when the bus in front of me the other day said "be your own boss"
I totally agree with this. Coming from someone who works an 8 to 5 job, I just feel tired and dissatisfied at the end of the day. I considered ypur insights, and yes, it will be nice to work passionately for something I really care about, and not just make money for someone else's dream. Namaste.
This resonates with me, especially the part where we work too much to secure tomorrow at the expense of today.
In my country, there's quite a craze about airdrops. There was a time I was part of that too, with the attendant spamming of twitter and telegram. One day, I just stopped myself short and asked what I was doing all of it. I realised I had no genuine reason. I just didn't want to miss out. Needless to say, that was the last day I applied for any airdrop.
Sometimes, we allow the fear of tomorrow to control us so much we miss the joy of today.
Thanks for your post
Blessings
Nice wonderful content.. You are not the only person.. Many other thought same
Money should be for necessities we should earn it but no to be a slave of it
Yeah its important that we should do what is better for us.. No what is better for making money..need of self awareness..
God bless you for good article
Agreed, thanks for stopping by and reading. :)
You are welcome.. Your content worth it