I know what you mean. It's a combination of being lucky to be able to do it and being willing to make the sacrifices. We live super simply too, and we have a few friends who come through in the clutch. And hooray for wraps and carriers! A mama's best friend. I only had a sling for my now 19yo, and I didn't really like it, but I had a wrap for my now 15 yo and wrap and ergo for my now 5 and 4 yos. Love, love my ergo. I'm glad you enjoyed the post! Part II coming later tonight!