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RE: Disciplining Children -- Questioning the Norm!
Just gotta look at small town history book here...They considered Indians savages because they didn't punish their children. That shows you exactly the mentality that saturates our culture right there. Stop punishing children period! I always felt I never deserved it. Makes you want to slit your parents throat. Including the paternalising governments.
It is incredibly frustrating to see what has become the norm! It is extremely difficult to go in public, as people are so horrendous to their children--it's sickening! I just remember that in order to treat another human being, especially a child that way, they themselves must have been treated with grave disrespect. They themselves are suffering greatly. Sadly, they are giving the best they've got!
Stop punishing the children period!!!! I'm grateful for your comment @havok777. I find it rare that people truly believe children can be raised without punishment. There are so many ideas about right and wrong, good and bad, should, have to, must.......be appropriate! Aargh! I'll be posting more on this subject. I truly appreciate your sharing your perspective.