BLOG #36 : WEDDING IN MY HOMETOWN ( PART 2 ) 💒💏💍
Hello friends on Steemit. Today I am back, and I will continue to introduce the theme: "The wedding in my hometown" part 2. Part 2, I will introduce the details of this wedding, 😘
**I went to the wedding at 2pm, everyone was ready to eat, it was a good party to invite guests. I was chosen as the person in charge of the heart box (this box contains the envelope with money) ..
When everyone went to the party, everyone was greeted with an envelope in which the money to wish happiness bride and groom . I wear a "Ao Dai" - this is the traditional costume of Vietnam. If you want to find out about this "Ao Dai", you can read my articles again.
The wedding hires one to host the wedding, he can sing. He sang for 6 hours. And all the wedding guests are singing.
I and the groom's parents are at the door welcoming the guests.
Box money
. I often say, "Thank you" or "Invite people to the party to share the joy of the wedding.
The wedding has made all 200 tables of food. Each table has 6 people sitting and eating a lot, dessert and wine. People can not eat all the food on the table, so they can bring food home.
There are 15 dishes per table for guests. Main food: chicken, barbecue, fried fish, shrimp, beef, boiled carrots, mixed vegetables, bamboo shoots, vegetable soup, ostrich meat .. Also fresh water for children (coca, pepsi, 7up) .. wine, beer for adults, .. orange, candy, ..
And..
When they finish eating, everyone will have tea and talk to each other.
Today, the groom family will hold a wedding table. And the bride's family also invited guests and do so. Tomorrow, there will be a ceremony to welcome the bride to her husband's house. That is when the bride and groom cut the cake and kissed each other.
The ceremony welcomes the bride
- groom to the bride's house.Often, the groom's family comes to discuss the time, at that time, the groom's family will enter the bride's home.
Presentation of giftsAccording to ancient customs, the bride's family burned incense before the groom's family was allowed to enter. Today's wedding is no longer the custom. Teams of fruits and gifts of the girls queue up, the team of the son of the house entered, standing in front of two rows, and then deliver the team to the side of the girl. The best man in the world is the one who will lead the way, only after the groom and the boss of the wife drink the tray and go in. The two of you are single and often friends, relatives of the bride and groom. If you can not ask a friend or relative, you can hire a team to do the service.
Presentation
The oldest or most powerful of the groom's family will open the ceremony, open the gifts, or flip the red scarf over the gift and introduce what the offering consists of.
Bride is brought out
The bride from the beginning sitting in her room waiting for her father or mother to salute the two parties, preparing to do the ceremony.. Celebrate the familyTo burn incense to the bride, groom to celebrate the first. “Huong “is usually lighted by a man in a bridal family (father, brother or brother of the bride). In addition, there are more custom burning lanterns. Boys carrying the ceremony will bring with them a pair of candles called "fire dragon", the girl's house prepared two lights, when the ceremony is lit.
After the father (or brother) of the bride burned incense, The bride and groom are officially husband and wife.(
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Then they exchanged wedding rings. The bride's parents will give the bride "jewelry or money to go home to her husband."
In the past, the bride and groom will be holding a party, but today this section is reduced to cake, fruit and tea. Because often receive the bride are "good time" should have a short procession at the girl's house to timely in time for the bride procession in the groom's family.
The groom's mother took the bride to the flower carriage, the groom followed her. When she goes, the bride can not look back. The bride needs to choose a bridesmaid to accompany her to help with many things when she comes to the groom's house (and to the restaurant for the party. Dad brought his daughter to the groom's house and her mother-in-law will pick up her daughter-in-law, the mother of the bride is not allowed to follow her ... the mother of the bride must stay home and close the door, do not cry.. However, today many families have abandoned this custom because marriage now does not have to do so, the psychology of everyone including the bride and her parents. All parents want to bring the bride to her husband, so that everyone will be witness the moment her daughter has officially stepped into a new page in life.
The bride celebrates the ceremony in front of the ancestral altar at the groom's house, receives money / presents from relatives of the groom ... The mother-in-law guides the bride into the wedding room, introduces the relatives .. making bed sheets procedure. The wedding bed is usually a new bed, no one is up, the groom's mother rearranges the pillow and blanket on the bed, may ask more relatives have sons and daughters to cover her "luck" The groom later gave birth to both sons and daughters. Many families are partying right after the procession, so the bride and groom and their parents must greet and greet everyone ... For families After dinner, the bride and groom get a little rest, prepare for the wedding party in the evening.
In Vietnam there are also many prohibitions should not be in the wedding..
Do not get married when the family is in mourning.
And to wait until the new funeral is held, ..The children mourning his parents 3 years ... The girl / boy to mourn his grandparents 1 year.. Since the wedding is a joy, a great event should be postponed at the same time to avoid the disadvantages, less luck for the couple. The funeral procession can also be done but it will make the wedding you lose all joy.
Do not get married in bad times.
Wedding regimes at bad hours, days, monthsMost importantly, wedding is a very important event in every person's life, except in case of force majeure, you need to look carefully at the time, date, Five stars for the good and the age of both husband and wife to later meet more luck, happy, eat out, The time to eat, the procession, the ceremony must be all good. In particular, people also abstain from the long needle, the year in which the bride is numbered with the tail of 1, 3, 6, 8 to avoid the risk in the relationship as a broken marriage, children infertile, difficult to raise, ...
Do not let the bride's mother take the bride to the groom's house.
It is said that if the bride's mother brings the bride back to the groom's house, the bride will save her parents and return.
The bride will miss home and want to go home.
When the bride comes to the groom's house, the bride can not turn her head to look at her parents
It is thought that if the bride turns to look at her parents, the bride will not be able to take good care of the groom's family.
Do not break the widgets.
It is said that it is unfortunate, broken glasses or glass of the family will make families unhappy and separated.
If the bride is pregnant before the wedding, she must not go to the big door.,she has to small door..of course the wedding will be smaller than normal wedding.In Vietnam, the view is very backward, .. people often despise the pregnant girl before the wedding, so when she entered the groom family, she was not allowed to go big door
Do not let the following people into the room of the bride and groom.
The wedding reception is an important place for the couple to start a new life. Therefore, the following persons are forbidden to enter the wedding room, including: widowed woman, pregnant woman, People who are infertile, the children, children have funeral ... to avoid the disadvantages, unfortunately for the new couple.
Abstain from certain items not allowed in the wedding roomIncludes broken objects, wine, plants with thorns, decorative dolls, old items, old people's memorabilia, pictures of other people, weapons, sharp objects, ... because it affects the harmony of the couple, in terms of feng shui, it creates air, it is not good to start a new life, you need to pay attention.
Many things should not be for the wedding, but I can not list them all. I hope you enjoy this article. 😄❤️
This is my favorite photo at the wedding.
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Been to a lot of vietnamese weddings in Germany but never to vietnamese one in Viet Nam. Still on my list :D
@@ oh .. Have not you returned to Vietnam? 😲
I did a couple of times but never been invited to a wedding :D
haha Your relatives are still Vietnamese, so you can still attend a traditional wedding. 👍
Time will tell :D
Wow!! You look exquistely beautiful!!! Full of glowing radiance! I hope you had a great fun in that wedding! Keep smiling and keep shining! ☺💚
Thank you ^^ I also wish you happy ^^
You're welcome! 🙂
i wish them best of luck to the newly couple you are looking so hot in red 😍 seriously 😍
Thank you. I also wish you always happy and lucky in life. 👍😄
Luck And hot girl like you :D :P
You are looking very gorgeous in your wedding photo.
"Do not get married in bad times.
In addition to this, all things are very important. @a-alice
There are always things to ban on having a nice wedding.^^
really nice blog.keep it up
Thank u 😘
Enjoyed the article, first time seeing Vietnamese marriage. Interesting with a lot of rituals as well, just like my locals. A lot of dos and donts, but in the end it’s all about wishing the newly wed the best for their future. Lovely event, your relatives wedding?
Yeah that's the wedding of my lover's brother.We have a lot of rituals and complexities, I left the rituals simple and I just write the main rituals .. How is the wedding of the homeland?
Going through quite similar rituals like meeting parents, sending gifts, choosing the right date... long time didn't join one too, usually attend the dinner only. Haha.. but will be facing that soon in the future, guess I can start research about mine again.
haha i think almost Asian weddings are alike. haha. Currently, some rituals have been cut to save time and money. 😂
Indeed, it’s very time consuming and costly. It’s not cheap to get married nowadays and everything is being commercialized.
I see a big wedding, but the bride and groom are very tired and have to do a lot of things. I like a simple wedding in the West.
ya, so like here, we separate the Registration of Marriage and the ceremonial wedding day into different dates. To lessen the burden, especially the money need to be prepared upfront, a crazy amount. Personally, I do like lean kind of wedding, with close friends and family will do.
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Wow Beautifulll pics and red Dress very awsome 💕
good smile and always be happy :)
thanks ^^I wish you always luck .
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