What will you go for?

in #mystery6 years ago

How many people do you actually know to possess the qualities below.

BEAUTY, INTERGRITY AND RESPECT.

This is what almost every SERIOUS guy searches for in a lady when the issue of marriage pops up. For centuries, the human race has evolved from women being relegated to the background of baby producing machines and domesticated animals of the kitchen to a much stronger, vibrant and ambitious being that can at anytime be as effective as the male counterpart in almost all fields today. It is fascinating really when you delve into issues like these.


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Caution, I believe should always be a priority when one tries to unscramble these thoughts as to why some men or women settle for just about anyone. Do you believe everyone should go for the aforementioned qualities?
I’d love to hear your thoughts on this issue in the comments below.

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I believe every man should go for a woman with the qualities mentioned in your posts. But this can be stretched too far when above the boundaries of who women are if care isn't taken. Some women , because egalitarianism have gone beyond their borders to think that 'what men can do, women can do better'. I don't believe this assertion is true because creations makes it clear things that are feminist and things that are not. I like the evolution of women because it's increased their function in the society and has contibuted to a lot of vital development. Don't get me wrong here @kwakumax, I'm not an anti feminist. But I'm an against the idea that females are males. Lol. Great post.

Well that's your opinion and i do not disagree totally with it but it's just as you clearly stated,

I like the evolution of women because it's increased their function in the society and has contibuted to a lot of vital development.

me! i have those three, LOL
Beauty not only for outside but whats important is the beauty you got from the inside
Integrity , we all have this it will be up to you to stand firm with it by doing good things and deciding in a proper way
Reapect, in order for us to earn this we shoulf learn how to

This has made me think dear @kwakumax hahaha ❤️❤️❤️

I am glad you have it all. Your husband must be one of the luckiest men on earth.

The problem posed is accentuated at present, all relationships have become superficial, there is no commitment by any of the parties, but specifically the man, the affection or love that must be conditioned is confused with sexual necessity, then women are seen As objects for satisfaction or procreation, obviously the woman has been part of this distortion to allow it, the struggle is for a healthy couple life, which is a teamwork to form a stable family that is the basis of society, greetings this good

It is very true ,all that you've stated. And just as you've said, both parties are equally responsible for this predicament. So, the real question here is ; what would you suggest as a remedy ?

A lady with those qualities is what I call the super lady. I respect such ladies and I always get angry within when I see a lady down herself before the community.

A beautiful lady without beauty in her heart is not beautiful to me.

I totally agree with you on this one. So basically what you prefer is to have a lady who has compassion for not just herself but for others as well.

I believe everybody has his goals and depending on these goals the man tries to find a woman who has the qualities to help him to achieve them. Obviously not for only procreation, or as kitchen bound beings but strong counterparts in building a strong family and a great future and the fore mentioned characters are required in such partner.

nice input. So what would you prefer?

Beauty, intelligence, God fearing, and respect

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