I'm not married so I'm not sure if I'm the perfect one to answer this but personally I ask myself these 2 things:
Are we both financially stable?
The two of us must have a decent and stable job first before even considering marriage. Sure some girls likes to be treated as a princess, but the problem I see with only the husband working is that the wife will become too dependent on the husband. When conflicts arises in the future, the wife will be at a complete disadvantage seeing as she has no source of income.
Can I stand my partner's flaws and annoying habits?
Dating is only fun because you two will only be spending a limited amount of time per day. When you two agree to meet on a certain place, you have an ample time to prepare (dress up, shave, fix your hair, etc..) and that's why when you see your partner, he/she is in his best state.
Now compare that to marriage where you two will spend the night and probably spend 24/7 with each other especially on weekends You will see your partner without make-up or even smell his/her breath first things first in the morning. There are also some annoying habits of him/her that you can stand during the dating part but not after living with him/her.
Before considering marriage, one must first think deeply if they really can stand this annoying habits.
One of the biggest decision in life is when someone decides to get married. Through the wedding you will bind the promise and commit to live out your life together with someone else's lifetime. There are many things to consider, and it is not a trivial matter.
While you steady for marriage, you have to make provision for the journey as husband and wife. You also have to learn a lot about life preclude
Marriage also affects the tax
When you were single and not married, Your obligation is to pay the Bill yourself. Of course this will be different when you're married, including taxes.
the financial statements should be managed together
Before getting married, you and your partner do a variety of things, including taking care of finances separately from each other. However, when married, you and your spouse have the same dream, like buying a House and a vehicle. Things like this is that requires cooperation between two people who are married.
language of love couples
How each person expresses feelings of love of course vary, including how you and your spouse must have a different way. Before marriage, be sure you understand the language of love couples to avoid conflicts in early marriage.
How to fight different
Before marriage, when an altercation occurred and could not be dilerai, then you and your partner can decide to end the relationship. But not when you have boldly decided to get married, you and your spouse will have to find other ways to fight and solve the problem.
Understand how to collaborate
When married, you should understand that your self with spouse has become a team that can not be separated.
You and your spouse is a family
At the beginning of the marriage may still feels weird considers sister pair is also the younger brother of your own. The thing that must be understood in an early marriage is the role, that you and your spouse has become one of the family
I'm not married so I'm not sure if I'm the perfect one to answer this but personally I ask myself these 2 things:
The two of us must have a decent and stable job first before even considering marriage. Sure some girls likes to be treated as a princess, but the problem I see with only the husband working is that the wife will become too dependent on the husband. When conflicts arises in the future, the wife will be at a complete disadvantage seeing as she has no source of income.
Dating is only fun because you two will only be spending a limited amount of time per day. When you two agree to meet on a certain place, you have an ample time to prepare (dress up, shave, fix your hair, etc..) and that's why when you see your partner, he/she is in his best state.
Now compare that to marriage where you two will spend the night and probably spend 24/7 with each other especially on weekends You will see your partner without make-up or even smell his/her breath first things first in the morning. There are also some annoying habits of him/her that you can stand during the dating part but not after living with him/her.
Before considering marriage, one must first think deeply if they really can stand this annoying habits.
One of the biggest decision in life is when someone decides to get married. Through the wedding you will bind the promise and commit to live out your life together with someone else's lifetime. There are many things to consider, and it is not a trivial matter.
While you steady for marriage, you have to make provision for the journey as husband and wife. You also have to learn a lot about life preclude
When you were single and not married, Your obligation is to pay the Bill yourself. Of course this will be different when you're married, including taxes.
the financial statements should be managed together
Before getting married, you and your partner do a variety of things, including taking care of finances separately from each other. However, when married, you and your spouse have the same dream, like buying a House and a vehicle. Things like this is that requires cooperation between two people who are married.
language of love couples
How each person expresses feelings of love of course vary, including how you and your spouse must have a different way. Before marriage, be sure you understand the language of love couples to avoid conflicts in early marriage.
How to fight different
Before marriage, when an altercation occurred and could not be dilerai, then you and your partner can decide to end the relationship. But not when you have boldly decided to get married, you and your spouse will have to find other ways to fight and solve the problem.
Understand how to collaborate
When married, you should understand that your self with spouse has become a team that can not be separated.
You and your spouse is a family
At the beginning of the marriage may still feels weird considers sister pair is also the younger brother of your own. The thing that must be understood in an early marriage is the role, that you and your spouse has become one of the family