I did read @(farr)krnel's post - it is a seriously good bit of writing - and it pulls apart all the aspects extremely well - too well because there are some bear traps in there which are very real for me.
Have a read of this - this is one of the things that gets me into trouble. After writing conciliatory remarks and getting shit back from this arse who ruined one of my posts - it was about Fracking and he is a Texan - wilfully ignorant -so eventually I wrote this post - I still quite like it:
https://steemit.com/steemit/@ebryans/english-trying-to-add-value-texan-you-decide-whale-orca-behaviour-sociopathic