I’m ugly AF
When I was a child in kindergarten, the first thing the teacher taught us is “Man's nature at birth is good.”
Then for a long time, I used this sentence as a measurement for all people, until one day I was laughed at and found out how stupid I was.
Man's nature at birth is not all good.
Many times the evil of human nature is beyond our imagination.
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But do you know? The scariest thing is not the evil villain. But there is a kind of evil, make people fear, and not dare to voice, which is group violence.
You are too fat to be superfluous.
You are too short to be sorry for the world.
Your dark skin will provoke everyone.
You look ugly, it's a crime.
You did nothing wrong, but everyone treats you like you committed some serious crime.
Normal person will say when treated unfairly: What the hell is this logic?
However, in many people's minds, these are the common logic set by bastards, for them, this not a groundless nonsense.
In primary school, there was a short girl in the class. In the second or third grade, we are about the same height; the girls will still play with her, the boys will be joking around pulling her ponytail.
When she was in fifth grade, she was just around one meter.
She always sits in the first row, and she doesn't do well in her study too.
When the boys passed by her seat, they no longer pull her ponytail, but, mercilessly press her head, and then proudly loudly call her "Dwarf."
She lowered her head, her teeth biting her lips, and her tears were dripping down.
Not only the boys did not leave, but stand around her, and laughed at her, even scribble on her textbook.
They gang up, laugh loudly, and trample her self-esteem under their feet.
She only broke out once: "Why don't you all die?!"
Never thought that the leader of the gang turned back: "If we die, you will die first. So short, your existence is really superfluous, hahaha ..."
She went crazy and tried to push the boy, but the boy dodged it ; she, and she fell heavily on the ground.
That day, no one stood up to help her, no one even bothers to call the teacher.
The bell rang, the class becomes normal again as nothing happened. Only her, sitting in the first row, bowed her head.
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Who knows what she's been through in that class.
Because she once cried home, her mother took her to school to find those boys, but the class teacher and those people are the same, they were only scolded by her mother and nothing else. After that, they escalated.
Not only ruined her clothes and stationery, spilled dirty water on her seat, but also insulted her mother.
After graduating, she did not go to any of the reunion party. She vanished like a deserted weed.
It was the first time that I realized the deep malice of the world.
For others, it may only a joke, but for me, it's a horror movie. And I, just being a spectator.
A lot of people doesn’t take those malicious jokes from the children seriously because they thought the children are still young, not sensible.
I only feel the biting cold and disgusting.
When a group sends ; she malice, it is no longer a joke. It becomes hurt, even persecution.
Isn’t the child's world should be simple? Shouldn’t everyone get along with each other and play game together?
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What's going on?
The reason is weird, also funny: because of someone ugly, short and fat.
When I first entered high school, there are a few boys who are always proud to bully others, especially bullying those who do not like to talk.
At first, I, was also introverted, because homesick, I didn’t do well in my study, the boy sat beside me, often order me to sweep the floor, clean the table.
I am very dissatisfied, but my study is not good, not tall, and also not lively and cheerful.
And he is the class monitor; even if he really made a mistake, the teacher will ignore his mistake.
There was a girl in the class who was not good-looking, and her skin was dark, and she was not that lucky.
I still remember the first day she arrived, the people called her “Black bear,” and the class roared with laughter.
She reddened her face, and desperately want to move the table, but no one helped her.
Everyone was afraid, if they hang out with her, they will become "black bear" friends.
There were times when she was in the same study group. But she hasn’t begun to speak, the boy sitting next to her said: "You’re so black, why are you still studying? Don't waste your time.”
She cried like it really hurt, from then on, never dare to say anything.
I’m also not good looking either. Although no one says those to me, seeing those people making so-called jokes, I will still be sad.
This is our first time being a human, can’t you treat everyone better?
What have they done wrong? They might even cry in the dream and woke up from the nightmare.
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I have a friend, she is very beautiful, is almost universally recognized goddess, the friends around are countless.
One time after drinking, she cried. She smiled and said, "You know what? I was also ugly. I can only envy those beauty. ”
In high school, she took hormones because of illness, her weight increased to 140kg.
At that time, the boy sitting beside her is a very handsome boy and she secretly happy for a long time. Unexpectedly, the first thing the boy said to her is: "You are so ugly, what’s the point of studying?"
She said from that day onwards, she hated all the good-looking boys. After graduating from high school, she spelled her life to lose weight, not eat and drink every day, bolted more than 10 kilometers.
During freshman year, she went for her high school reunion party. She does not remember what other people think of her, only know that when the boy who sat next to her during high school saw her, he was surprised and spill the beer.
At night, the boy send her a message: "Girl, you are so beautiful, be my girlfriend." Obviously, he has forgotten the hurt he gave her.
But my friend didn't forget.
She only reply: "Why don't you go to hell?"
Later, she went for all the reunion party, but the boy, never appeared.
Her current boyfriend, is a technician, not handsome, but treat her very well.
A lot of people will say, we need to thank the people who hurt us, is them, who let us become a better self.
But the pain they bring, can it be forgotten that easily?
The answer is impossible.
Some pain, is unforgettable for a lifetime.
Whenever you think of it, you will be afraid, will be scary, will be disgusting, not dare to face.
That is the most painful part of our heart, it is the wound that is hard to heal with time.
In fact, I saw countless angry students, they may not have the courage to stand up, but they know the evil of those people.
Please believe that there are still goodness in this world.
This is a highly sensible post, the matters on bullying and victimizing ,children because they are different, by thier fellow colleagues is becoming alarming in schools,this has a negative effect on the victim life in the long run, i believe this issue should be treated with all matter of seriousness.
Very true, @walkinharmony. Sometimes the bully is bound to have low respect at home, and that is the reason they need attention from other areas. Anyway, it is also the importance of the family and school education to play the key role to get this scenario rectified. We always must still have faith that we can make the world better.
There are many people in this world only look at the outer appearance. Not every beauty or handsome on the outside are good on the inside. Some of these may even backstab you so that they can climb higher in their status or promotion. Never judge a book by its cover but get to know others first. I should also not listen to others unless we personally observe to verify as there can be many who may not always judge one fairly. Good post in highlighting the need for such value in human race.