Not at all "ticked off" @chelsea88 Everybody that exists here is entitled to their opinion, perspective, feeling and personal experience.

I have a family member who has suffered with severe depression for many years so I have an acute understanding for it, but I will not change my approach on things... because as much as who "they are", and where "they" stand.... I am "who I am" and I "stand where I stand".... and you too should respect that :)

Sometimes, the harsh"er" approach delivers a well needed message a lot faster. Take heed of that too :)