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RE: Mini Motivation: Love the skin your in...
oh thats a good idea using Gina for that.
People may be like me, I'm quite open about my bag, but I never seek support, never did support groups or any of that. They may not like talking about it at all.
I think my opinion of life with a stoma might be a lot different if I were single though, as that would be a hell of a thing to have to mention to girls on a date. The rejection would cause some serious mental problems. Even if the rejections were related to the stoma, you would think that was the secret meaning behind it.
Very very true, I was dumped the night before my surgery, he actually wished me dead on the operating table, charming bloke and the best thing he ever did for me, but being single was so so hard as I truly believed that no one would or could love me like this. I was very wrong but your head will go where it does and I was super lucky to meet a man that had zero issues with my illness or the bag, just loved me for me. :)
Thats bloody horrible to wish someone dead on the operating table, what an asshole.
Got it in one, funny thing, he contacted me on FB a few years later and told me it was only cause he loved me so much that he didn't want anyone else to have me... WTF... Some people, I can tell you I wasn't so kind before I blocked him.