Define Yourself or Somebody Else Will
There are two kinds of people in this world, one is who define themselves and those who are defined by others. What you want to be?
Let me first explain what defining yourself actually refers to? Defining yourself is a way to see yourself with your own perspective. There can be multiple perspective like physical appearance, achievements, failures and a lot more. Based on these facts you will be judged and manipulated by others. Now the only thing that matter is how you see yourself? Do you want to have a good physical appearance or you want to be intelligent? Do you care being judged or care more for your achievements? No matter what you do you will always be judged and manipulated. Some people will always criticise you even if you make everybody rich, happy or any good thing that comes to your mind.
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Some people are like a testing machine, they will always try to find the bug in your life that you are most scared of, so that you dance on their decisions. They will try to enclose you into a box and no matter how hard you push back, the box is going to withstand. Paying too much attention to others perspective about yourself is called “Defined by others”.
Now the crucial part comes, Are you really doing what you wanted to do in your life or unconsciously being forced by others to do what they wanted you to do? Do you care about your decisions you make or are you dependent on other’s decision? These are the most important questions that you need to ask yourself honestly.
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Well, I focus more on inner beauty rather than outer beauty. I make decisions that would bring me one step closer to my goals. I am no different from others, I also fear of being judged and manipulated. But I am doing my best to avoid these things by being conscious about it. There is a saying that if you know you are wrong or weak at some point and doing nothing to overcome it then this may be the biggest mistake of your life. Pay attention to areas that you know deep somewhere you should take steps to improve it.
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Great post with wonderful ideas. I definitely agree with everything you have to say.
If I may add, your grammar and formatting made it difficult to read through the piece. I found myself constantly going backward to reread portions of the writing. There are great online grammar editing tools that may help; they aren't perfect but most are pretty decent.
Thank you for taking the time to write this up and share it. :)
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Thank you for reading man!!! You are a great supporter @mindhunter
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not sure it's either/or. laugh at yourself or someone else will. maybe it's define yourself first so when someone else does it , it will be irrelevant. i think i understand your points. just striving for clarity.
You got a point but I have used "or" in respect to this post. There can be different meaning of different words at different places.
whenever i see two choices i always look for more. it's kind of becoming reflex. otherwise i feel like i'm being herded.
Looking out for other more interesting things is called creativity. I like that!!!
We need to defined ourselves in order to live a life that honest and true to ourselves. No one else can live our lives for us. Only then can we live a life that is purposeful as well as enriching.
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