@tryskele, you're an awesome mum, I can tell based on your comment. It's the kind of mum that I've always wanted, a mum that will let me fall and grow by myself. A mum who will let me live my own lives. Keep it up, you're doing great for your kids!

Thank you for the advice @tryskele. It's sad that she doesn't understand but I believe she will understand, when she will.

Boundaries? What do you mean by boundaries?