Is it appropriate to get a lady pregnant before wedding her?

in #love6 years ago

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Well,a few years ago, i would have had a different opinion, but seeing realities of life and things not always going as planned for everyone, i would say to each his own.  all the rules of you must do this before that are all man made to make us conditioned , see and d life in a specific kind of way, which should not be the case.

Having said that. i would like to point out that there are some people who like each other enough to want to have a baby together but not confine into the institution of marriage. 

The harsh reality also is that not everyone is meant to get married, and for women, she may want to make use of her fertile age to have healthy  babies before whenever fate or luck of marriage befalls them, who knows when that will happen, .

in my opinion, marriage,, even to the couple is a lot of pressure. people should plan lives best way it suites them, and not what some life rules dictate of us .

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