You know, what your said about being single is deep wisdom. Because basically all of us are better off being singles, most of the time, in order to stay loyal to our inner growth path. In many cases people stay in their relstiondhips for much longer time than needed. This is not to say that healthy, good, long term relstiondhips are not possible under the appropriate circumstances.
You can post your questions in the replies to the posts and I'll be happy to address. 👍