This is so epic and beautiful!!!!! I think from your analogy "think of it like an interview".

If you want to "win" in the dating interview

1. Present your best self, physically and emotionally
2. Prepare by learning as much as you can about the company/date before interview
3. Practice asking and answering sample questions.
4. During: show that youve heard and understood by responding appropriately-- but dont fake it. If you are confused-- say so!! Ask questions!
5. Bring materials that give a preview of what its like to date you; Thoughtful gifts may or may not apply. Its up to you.
6. Dont over sell or talk tooo much. Notice i didnt mention genders. This works for women and men and genderqueer persons. Try to notice the persons expression. If they are engaged or if they are lost or if they are bored. Men and women have the same facial expressions unless there is a cognitive/ brain health issue.
   If you are honest with yourself and what you like you will find the right company and that company will find you.

Important pre- interview : you must apply for many companies that suit you. Get to know them first. Where can you find them? Anyplace where similar interests can be found. How to approach? Ask questions. Smile. Be friendly.