Blog #13: True Love? What is it? [for the incoming Valentine]
True love? What is it?
It's quite difficult to define "what is the true love"! How could you make it clear? Love is the most complicated thing in the world.
I don't know how you define what is the true love. To me, true love happens when two people feel comfortable to be with each other. They could read between the lines of each other. They have lots of happy feeling when doing everything together. They care each other much. They love their partners' strength as well as the weakness. They respect, they admire their partners always. And they love each other, given the wealth, the money, the beauty...
Sometimes, there are some people who get stuck in their relationship. Someone just keeps loving their partner without knowing exactly who they are. They keep loving others who don't love them back, or even that person has had a happy family. That is not "True love". That's a blind love. Sooner or later, they would get back an awful lesson for their blindness.
What makes the love last long?
To be a couple, the most important factor keeps your love last long is to share with each other. Share your thought, share your idea, share your life, share your tasks at home, ....
When both of you can have the same opinions, it would be more easily for both of you to build a strong relationship.
Both of you must show the "true caring", "true respect", "true admiration", "true sympathy". It's True You. I know everyone has their own Ego. If you just keep your Ego for yourself, you would fail in your relationship. The powerful love is the love which has a Big Ego (I call it The Ego of a Big Love) built by both of you.
And more, these nice things must take place until you get married, not only when both of you are still a couple. Some people see their partner become another one after their marriage. Why? Because they dont have the feeling of losing someone. They think they have had their partner forever. They think they have become a wife and a husband, so its no need to be romantic. You are wrong. And as a result, their love seems to fade away little by little.
Love could happen at first sight. But to increase a true love, it needs time, efforts from the True Will of both of you. You desire to come with each other on a long road, you must give your partner "a great effort", a deep love from the bottom of your heart.
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