Hello my fellow Steemians, i am still continuing with what i was discussing yesterday regarding remarks that may lead to strange obsession for the man or for the woman.

It is said that with women as well as with men, obsession are particularly likely to arise from any small incident, such as disparaging remark, smile or gesture on the wedding night, or when emotions are exceptionally sensitive. Many women, for example are extremely self-conscious about their breasts. Others developed a fix idea that they are unattractive when in fact they are quite attractive. The great dislike for undressing before their husbands or men which some women show is often due to this.

All that i have said in my previous post regarding love-play applies to the wedding night or any first night for a man and the woman with a special force. When love making is tender, and the man's erotic technique is good, the result will be be a gradual development of confidence, and with it will come a steady lessening of reluctance to give, or show, all.

Many a bride they say and in fact other women are hurt by brusque attitude of their men on their wedding night or doing it the first time. Often the woman is left to undress, perhaps urged to do so quickly, when in fact she should be initiated slowly. It may be better for the man wait until she is undressed before entering the bedroom, unless she suggests otherwise.

I am sure you know that cloths are now built skillfully around ones personality and body that they often tend to display to the world a very much more impressive figure than the naked woman.

The man who wonders whether he is unmanly, or, being hairy, fears that his woman may liken him, mentally, to an ape. Whilst the broad shouldered male who owes much to his tailor may be fearful of his slender physique, thin legs, narrow chest. The woman may have similar fears about her breasts, thighs, skin, and so on.

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To Be Continued

****If you are interested in my work, these are the links to other post on this series****.
first sexual intercourse "chance remark"
first sexual intercourse

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I AM NOT AND EXPERT NOR AN AUTHORITY LICENCED TO TEACH OR PREACH SEX. ON THE CONTRARY, I AM SIMPLY AN INDIVIDUAL WHO IS FACINATED WITH THE VERY IDEA OF SEX AND ALL THAT IS NEEDED TO BE KNOWN. (IT IS MY BELIEVE THAT EVERY MAN OR WOMAN, WHO HAS WARM BLOOD FLOWING THROUGH HIS OR HER VAINS AND SINEWS SHOULD BE EQUALLY INTERESTED ABOUT THE SUBJECT OF SEX).

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