FIRST SEXUAL INTERCOURSE "chance remark)
Hello guys, this is the continuation of my series on the topic "first sexual intercourse".
- It is generally known that, when newly weds are finally together after the brief ceremony of tying the knots and reception over with, men usually want to crowd everything into a limited period, perhaps into a mere matter of a few days. Worse still, is the attempts made to force the pace of the Marriage so that it is consummated fully in one brief night.
Unless there is experiment and close intimacies prior to marriage, this is nearly always attempting too much. For each partner to reveal all to the other, for each to be explored fully by the other, for defloration to be effected (in case of a virgin), it is full of danger when the wife has had little sexual experience.
That literally nothing is unimportant on the wedding night may be gathered from the effect which is sometimes produced by a chance remark, or even by a facial expression. The husband who uncovers himself too soon to a young and inexperienced bride may see in her eyes a look of terror, or, at least, of distaste. Or she may remark that she cannot bear to see 'that thing'. This may wound the self esteem of the man by such a trifle that he goes through life feeling that there is something repugnant about him.
- There is this story of a man who shared that his sexual experience had only been with prostitutes. With them he felt safe from too critical comment or dislike, since he paid them for 'putting up with him'! Sadly, he further said that he had practiced a form of mutual cuddling with his wife, which was usually sufficient to produce orgasm for him, but never since the wedding night had he appeared naked in his wife's presence, nor had he again attempted intercourse with her. This is a classical case in which both the husband and the wife may have been affected in different ways by a false step on a wedding night.
- Again, there is a somewhat similar story told, where a young man of twenty visited a prostitute, she laughed at his small member, and the same thing happened the second time he associated with a prostitute. So deeply wounded was his vanity that he not only went without any sexual relations for years, but decided he would never marry.
Eventually he fell in love with a girl, but he felt that he could not possibly propose to her because of his disability. But one night, after taking her to a theater and then seeing her home, he felt so lonely that he visited a brothel where a prostitute found him easy prey. Once in her room, he again felt shame of his inadequacy. He made for the door, intending to leave. She stopped him, questioned him, learned of his obsession. Not only did she not assure him that his organ was not smaller than most men's, but added: 'why, I know many who would like to have one like it!'
Not entirely assured, the young man sought other expert advice from another prostitute! She confirmed the previous verdict, with this new result and an assurance, from then on, the young man's obsession left him. He decided to marry, eventually becoming the father of two children.
- These are of course extremely examples, but nonetheless, they illustrate how easily a chance remark can affect one's whole outlook.
Few women seem to realize just how sensitive the average man is about his genital organs and sexual prowess. So despite a man's assumed self-assurance, the slightest wound to his pride can be disastrous in its effects.
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#To Be Continued
#DISCLAIMER
I AM NOT AND EXPERT NOR AN AUTHORITY LICENCED TO TEACH OR PREACH SEX. ON THE CONTRARY, I AM SIMPLY AN INDIVIDUAL WHO IS FACINATED WITH THE VERY IDEA OF SEX AND ALL THAT IS NEEDED TO BE KNOWN. (IT IS MY BELIEVE THAT EVERY MAN OR WOMAN, WHO HAS WARM BLOOD FLOWING THROUGH HIS OR HER VAINS AND SINEWS SHOULD BE EQUALLY INTERESTED ABOUT THE SUBJECT OF SEX).