FIRST SEXUAL INTERCOURSE
"DO NOT BEGIN YOU MARRIAGE WITH A RAPE" Balzac.
- Their are women who deeply recoil from anything that has to do with full sexual intercourse. What i mean to say is that they will not allow for full panetration of the man's penis into their vagina. This may stem form the prospect of loosing something which has been carefully protected for a long time or as a result of an often deep-rooted feeling of embarrassment which may arise from early upbringing and social convention. This is too important for it to be ignored by any man.
- With such women, there is a sense of shame so strong that it is felt in connection with intimacies outside of sexual act. For instance in the bedroom, the woman may gladly kiss and allow herself be kissed. She may willingly and happily consent to be touched by the hand, so that most of her body is explored by her lover. But may feel terrified at the very idea of appearing naked before her man outside the bedroom.True she may be looking forward to doing so in time. But the thought of a sudden revelation, appearing naked so that there is nothing left for her to hide, fills her with fears.
In the same manner, the woman, especially a bride may not welcome as other women might, the idea of her man completely naked before her, if he is a man which is said to be sexually athletic, and he feels the desire to display himself as quickly as possible, he should do well to restrain himself. For it is common fact that to a virgin the penis in erection appears quite huge, and often conveys an impression which leads to a combination of fear and distaste. The sudden shock thus produced may yield from that moment a dislike of all sexuality, which will render intercourse difficult, if not impossible for the rest of her life if help is not sought.
Instances could be sighted of brides who have fled from the bedroom when, on their wedding night, the husbands, eager to impress them with their sexual endowment, have displayed themselves. Advisably, the man or the husband must proceed slowly, he should realise that his task is to initiate his bride or woman step by step into all the phases of the sex relationship.
- Finally, If the honeymoon is to be the beginning of the sexual intercourse in the married state, then much of the inevitable experiment should be better carried out in advance.
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To Be Continued
#DISCLAIMER
I AM NOT AND EXPERT NOR AN AUTHORITY LICENCED TO TEACH OR PREACH SEX. ON THE CONTRARY, I AM SIMPLY AN INDIVIDUAL WHO IS FACINATED WITH THE VERY IDEA OF SEX AND ALL THAT IS NEEDED TO BE KNOWN. (IT IS MY BELIEVE THAT EVERY MAN OR WOMAN, WHO HAS WARM BLOOD FLOWING THROUGH HIS OR HER VAINS AND SINEWS SHOULD BE EQUALLY INTERESTED ABOUT THE SUBJECT OF SEX).