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RE: The pain I feel from not seeing my children, is unspeakable. Here is the list of people that have made my life and my childrens life's, a living hell!!!
I got the feeling that in the court system, you have very bad changes as a man and if you on top of that have a child with a foreigner,
I would like to say that this is rare but sadly I think in most family breakdowns the man is at a severe disadvantage in the courts. I have heard many such stories.
There was even a group in the UK that tried to fight for the rights of fathers - haven't heard from them in a while but I suspect they still exist.
I have heard about the existence of similar groups in France. It is sad, but fathers are kind of discriminated in such cases.
There are MRAs all over the western world, the problem is that it will never solve the problem, in the current state of society, the only way for a man to prosper, is to go MGTOW. Then if he want one child or more children, then he will have to use a surrogate mother.
We indeed need a change in mentalities as a starter.
To just tell people to change their mentalities is not enough, what is needed, is that all the victims expose the people who did it to them (mostly exposing the mothers and the lawyers involved in these scams and frauds). Then when everyone knows the risk of using the corrupt state as a scam for extracting men's resources and ruining men's and children's life's, then the mentality change will happen.
But first the consequences, that is why I recommend all men to expose the people who did this to them and the children on Steemit!
on steemit and elsewhere!
Please correct what you write, it is not rare, and I guess that's not what you meant? It is often that this happens.
There is a reason that there is something called MGTOW, that is an autonomous movement of men that refuse to marry and get children, as they know they will most likely live a similar scenario as mine. Had I knew what I know today and had MGTOW existed back in 2006, then I think I would have never made those woman pregnant, but instead used a surrogate mother and fathering a child alone.
Of course I love my son and (hypothetical) my daughter, but how can I really give them my love, if I almost don't see them?
There is something called MRA (men's rights activists) that is men that have not realized that they will never get their rights in order, they will always loose, that is what MGTOWs have realized.
You misunderstand - I said I would like to say it is rare but it is not rare - that is the point I was making - I have heard the same story from many others.
It happens to a lot of men and a lot of children. The only solution is to expose those creppy lawyers on Steemit (as in the past when men tried to expose them on the internet, they just got taken down, which is not possible on Steemit, right?).
They make a living on ruining children's life's. What will happen if all the stories come out in the light?? Imagine that one day nobody want anything to do with lawyers who ruined one or more children's life's and nobody want anything to do with mothers who did this to their children and the fathers. That is the solution to this problem.
I have much more to say about it, but I will try to come with a little at a time :)
Sure the more people that talk about it the more likely it is that change will come.
My experience is that it does not help to talk about these issues. In-fact it usually lead to social isolation and such. The only thing I believe help, is to expose those who do this to the children and the fathers, and I mean the mothers who do this and the lawyers who help them do it. When enough got exposed, then woman will begin to make better decisions, before getting pregnant and not doing these destructive things, as they will know they will get publicly exposed.
That's my best idea, but it will take time, the hell we live in now, have been here for generations, its not a new thing.