Stuck Between FOMO and Time Travel

in #life7 years ago (edited)

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Every now and then I come across a story about someone describing their regret for not investing in the Blockchain earlier. The internet of things they call it, they describe it as investing in the internet back in the day, and they wish they'd invested early... As if it was too late already.

I don't know if you've noticed but these kinds of stories have been quite frequent lately. Especially in the recent weeks.

And every time I come across one of those, I immediately start to process that inescapable feeling that pops up anytime I read a story, or watch a video in the same lines.

Maybe it’s the feeling of fear, not the fear of action but the fear of missing out. Maybe

F.U, FOMO!

My brain, by nature - maybe yours too - tries to construct scenarios that rewrite the actual story in a more favorable way to avoid the discomfort that comes with regret, thus disguising it under a more pleasant memory.

Say for example you had the chance to invest in Bitcoin early on and you didn’t take it. Then a few years later you would feel some sort of regret, would you not?

Then in that case, there’s this phenomenon that takes place where you start to imagine a brand new scenario where you did invest early on, and as a consequence you’re in a much better situation now. It’s a really nice feeling.

The problem is that the phone rings and wakes you up from that day-dream.

I call that phenomenon Time Travelling.

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Here's the thing, there are no do-overs. There is no insert coins moment. But there’s good news still.

Because it’s not too late, far from it in fact.

There are several other opportunities in the market, as there are other cryptocurrencies that are destined for the same growth than BTC (or maybe even more), including the amazing STEEM which I will get to at the end of this post.

But let’s go back to regret and time-travel for a second.

Stuck Between Fomo and Time Travel

While time-travelling is an excellent way to sooth the temporary pain of regret, it still fails to tackle the root of the problem. In fact, it might just guarantee you the same outcome every time by having you never learning from your past mistakes.

But even with that in mind, is it easy to get rid of?

In an ideal world, I'd would love to tell you that the minute I realized how counterproductive time-travel is, I said never again and stopped doing it.

In the real world however, breaking habits often turns out to be much easier said than done.

One way is to resist, that would be the hard way. And it would require constant efforts and discipline.

Another way is to pull a Sun Tzu and use the opponent's strength against itself.

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So instead for resisting time-travel all together, why not travel to the future and compare both scenarios, one with the cost of action, and one with the cost of inaction.

Yes, Fomo might kick in, sure. But Fomo can also be a powerful tool if used correctly.

Be on the Right Side of Time

I like to remind myself sometimes of a story that Gary Vaynerchuk recounts about how a few years ago he was trying to convince a huge mega-franchise called Blockbuster to purchase a little crazy thing called Netflix, for a not so great sum of money.

Their response was a little bit like this: We’ll pass.

Why? One can speculate but a case can be made that perhaps they didn’t see the new trend coming.

Now, looking at what Netflix represents today in relationship to a few millions at the beginning of a gigantic trend, it becomes clear that they missed on a hell of deal.

If I were in that room, I bet I'll be time-travelling right now.

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With blockchain tech, the same thing seems to be underway, we are now at the very beginning of a trend that is set to disrupt several markets in the years to come.

The world is changing fast, there’s no denying that, and it will change even faster as we hit the bell curve, so you either move fast or the wave passes you by.

Riding the Third Wave

Meanwhile, the politicians will probably just keep pretending that a decentralized peer to peer economy is just some sort of a hippie fantasy that will fade away once the teenagers grow up decide to go back to state controlled monopolies.

Look around, the largest real estate company has no buildings, the biggest transportation company has no cars, the largest retailer in the world has no stores…

More money is leaving each year from TV advertising to Youtube and social media influencers as the attention economy is shifting rapidly.

Not only Elvis has left the building, but his impersonators died of old age.

The best thing is, steem has the best of both worlds, an efficient cryptocurrency and blockchain, AND a social media site for the attention economy.

As far as I’m concerned, there’s only one thing left to say:

Steem on my friends!

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Here and now is the perfect time for investment my friend's.. Steem is going up and its like a train.. More and more people are coming and everything is expanding.. Invest in the site and it will invest in you.
Much love
-Goldie

I joined steem recently and have seen progress. I am bullish about steem and see it reaching 20USD by next year...I am fired up and ready to go!!! steem is where to be isnt it? Good post @the-alien and great comment @vangelov

Yes it is! Im living in a country that doesn't operate with euros and usd and currently the 64 cent that I have on my comment votes can buy me a beer 🍺.
That's how amazing steem is to some people..
So buckle up and lets shoot for the moon :)

The same here. Steem is changing lives hence why I registered my family members last week and promoting this baby to more success. This is time to devote your energy on a platform that will revolutionise social media and hopefully take over in few years time...Lets steem to success, win win for all of us.. and hey, lets stay in touch

Haha that's awesome @Vangelov! Can't beat ¢64 beer :)

And I agree of course, steem an amazing currency and more and more people keep coming :)

Thanks for the great comment!

Thanks Charles! I'm happy for your progress!

Here's to 20USD steem! :)

you are welcome, keep steeming

you are welcome buddy, lets stay in touch so we can celebrate together when steem takes over social media. Following you buddy. Great guy

Thanks man! Of course, let's stay in touch. It'll be great to look back at these times :)

I agree. We will certainly stay in touch. I will be checking out your posts. We will promote this baby to more success. Fired up and ready to go

Thank you Charles, I just follwoed you, I'll check your posts soon as well!

Well said btw: Fired up and ready to go :)

Amen to that buddy!!! One great steem family. Fired up and ready to go

I admire the energy here...the optimism gives a new member like me the raison d' etre to know am in the right place...

i've been here a day and i love it

I'm glad you do :) Wait a couple of months, you'll love it even more!

yeah !! cant agree more !! I just started my first buy and super excited

Haha I love it!

Great exploration of the future that we are glimpsing already. Love this: "the largest real estate company has no buildings, the biggest transportation company has no cars, the largest retailer in the world has no stores". That should be a wake up call for the governments, corporations, and other organizations. P2P is not a fad; it's the face of the new economy.

Exactly, it's the face of the new economy. And it's here to stay :)

Thanks Tom!

I like this blog, it's very true what you say and I think we can all recognise it. I remember looking back at Bitcoin when it fell back down to £200 a few years back and I think, man if'd just invested then ha! So the prices we have now are perfect, and will be for some time to come I think.

Oh man! I've been through the same, I actually bought one bitcoin at 300, too bad I didn't buy more.. But the when you realize there are other currencies and the prices will still rise... You realize there's still much to win if you take action.. Plus, I found steem which is much more beautiful for me than BTC :)

Love the Blockbuster story, haven't heard that before. There is something I miss about walking into the video store though! Thanks for the great post.

This whole idea of crytos is very new. Just wait until the regular Ol' Joe starts catching on.

I don't do regrets. We can only take decisions based on the info we have at the time. If we didn't have the info, it was out of our control. No reason for regret.
If we did have the info, we still took a decision based on what we thought was best back then.
I love your suggestion to focus our energy on the future instead.
Mindtravel to the past is a waste of energy :) (and it's how all the MLM companies sell their coins: Imagine how rich you could be today! :D )

You nailed it!

And you're right it doesn't help at all, just hold you back. Do the best with what you have, that sometimes is enough :)

Thanks for the great comment!

hey, you must be referring to EOS!

And btw... what's BlockBuster?! lol (jk)

EOS has a bright future I'm sure of it :)

Haha Blockbuster :P

"Would've, could've, should've!" ... said anyone who has dipped their tippy toes into investing/trading.

You make some great points at the end @the-alien regarding the demise and disappearance of many brick-and-mortars.

However, there's a strong growing trend of successful online retailers now moving into the traditional retail space. Exciting times!

Yeah exciting indeed!

All we need to do is to be on the right side of time :)

I have this everyday. I think "Should i invest more...maybe.. but i cant afford what i got into it already" It is a painful thing. Hopefully when i am rich because of my current investment I wont think back to today and say "Man i wished i invested more then ... I could be doubly rich now."

Good article. Makes me think...for a change

Yeah it's a tough choice, generally I'm more of a don't invest what I can't afford to lose kind of guy.. But also you never know.

Thanks by the way!

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