Timing is indeed a very important part of any performance.
Thank you for your detailed response, very thought provoking.
I believe it is best to go with balance, consideration, acceptance, and as little to no expectations as possible.
My self ends at the reach of my arms, so why should my expectations go any further than this? getting angry/frusterated at anothers choices is indeed a choice of my own, so the fault lies with me at that point.

Such layers upon layers. Very onion! haha