You always have a choice- choose wisely

in #life5 years ago

Envision this....
You are strolling through the park on a beautiful day and somebody slaps you on your back. It's painful and you swing to confront the individual and...

You see it's your most darling friend whom you saw most recent two years back, grinning uncontrollably at you.

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What happens then?

Rather than stirring something up, you give him/her a major embrace.

What was the deal?

Is it safe to say that the slap all of a sudden turned out to be less painful?

No!

What happened was that your elucidation of the activity changed. You NO LONGER considered it to be a strike; you currently considered it to be an indication of love.

My point?

You chose how to react

In this way, you can ALWAYS choose how you react to things - ANYTHING.

You can choose how you react to your financial difficulties. You can run terrified or you can build up an arrangement.
Continuously bear it in your mind that you CAN generally choose, independent of the experience.

So what will you choose now even with whatever you are experiencing?
Many times in life, we are forced to choose between two or more options, it could be related to finance, marriage or career. Trust me, It's not easy to make a decision, because everything choice you make will surely have an effect in your life either now or later. It's okay to be nervous or overwhelmed when you're in such position.

Always be calm and avoid panic. Analyze the problem carefully. Take your time to avoid making a choice you might regret later and always remember nobody is perfect
Making a wrong decision is not the end of the world as long as you're willing to learn from them.

You always can't make yourself feel positive but you can at least choose how to act at all times, and if you choose wisely, you gain confidence

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