Our Need to Fit in Society

Since we are born we have a need for affection, that first appreciation we feel is with the person who gave us life -our mothers-. As time goes by and we grow, that need becomes more social, that is, we need to spend time with people in which we feel good as our friends, our relatives or acquaintances with whom we spend pleasant moments. Although for some people that need is difficult to satisfy because it does not fit, you must feel good because we are not for everyone. I will comment on some elements that we must take into account to feel good among society.

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We Are Not Gold Coins

With this phrase I mean that we can not be agreeable to the 7 billion people in the world. In any place we can be with people in whom we can sympathize but with others we simply will not agree, it is impossible to think in the same way that all the individuals.
Many people feel a lot of influence in what others say, they look for the way to belong without being simply oneself.

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There are Millions of Distinct People

Each of us is different, so we must share and create a feedback in the exchange of different points of view to know the thinking of each of the people we know and observe in which of all we feel more at ease, and we would share the Same ideas.

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Feeling Accepted

Among the social groups that exist, in at least one of them we must agree, people with whom we share the same ideas, sports, tastes, hobbies, etc. These groups that we find in the different areas that we live in our life are those where we feel more free and that is why it is fundamental. For example, playing the same sport as your neighbor will create an environment of friendly competition.

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Work and Study Environments

These two environments are where we find ourselves most often are the most controversial at the time of fitting in, but it is necessary that even though we do not feel at ease in some of these atmospheres we must do our best to create interpersonal relationships.
For me, a bad environment generates deviations in the objectives we have planned, disgust and there will be no perseverance.

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Be yourself

The most important thing to fit into society is to be oneself. Sometimes we are in situations where we are insecure, worthless or we have been a victim of bullying but that is not reason to feel bad, instead of being sad we must be strong and continue. As I said earlier, some people will feel good about your presence.

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There are times when we are unstable and the solution is to smile at everything and feel happy. We can just be lonely people and that's not a bad thing. Find someone to share your life, your decisions, your thoughts, your goals, your goals, your desire to live, but never depend on it, it is not good for you. Be yourself!

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