You send it! It makes me feel amazing when I see all of the kind-hearted comments and well wishes being sent my way. My husband unfortunately has cancer also, and he (@briancourteau) and I often write poems to each other on here. We both have been pleasantly surprised by the outpouring of emotion from people; you are absolutely correct when you say "the collectiveness is a powerful force". People helping people...that's my thing! Thank you so so much!