I do agree. and i think everyone has the opportunity to rise above society. In fact many mothers donteach their sons bad behaviors because the mothers engange and allow such things to exist in their lives. I know of love based on how i saw my mom interact with me . Thusly, i was afraid of penises until about 27. No matter how sweet the guy was. Lol! Its ridiculous to me now. Such a thing is merely esh and quite vulnerable too!

But ive exposed a very important secret so i digress. For me: Men are innocent until proven trash but get no passes for being asleep. Society fucks us all up. Its our job to move beyond that and to challenge ourselves and others everyday.