Is it only about your house or do you get the feeling you need to re-arrange stuff when you're visiting?
Ok, I admit, I was looking around my place while reading and said to myself: Oh, crap, such a mess!
On the other hand, since this 'a bit OCD' doesn't give you much trouble and you're happy, that's OK.
I rarely visit to be honest....I just prefer a netrual place...like a coffee shop. :) I don't like to arange other peoples stuff. It is odd to explain...it is not mine....so I feel no need to organise it. I have no problems coming to your home, remove the pille of clothes from the couch and sitting down. I don't judge...partly I admit....cuz I dont want to be judged myself for beeing a bit crazy.
Hey, who told you about the pile of clothes on the couch?
Also, I agree, I don't judge other people's homes for the exact same reason.