I rarely visit to be honest....I just prefer a netrual place...like a coffee shop. :) I don't like to arange other peoples stuff. It is odd to explain...it is not mine....so I feel no need to organise it. I have no problems coming to your home, remove the pille of clothes from the couch and sitting down. I don't judge...partly I admit....cuz I dont want to be judged myself for beeing a bit crazy.