Seeing failure as a first step to successes!

in #life5 years ago

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Everyone may have experienced a failure, both failure in education and daily work. No need to feel inferior or embarrassed if you have experienced this because failure is not a shameful thing that will make you look very bad. Remember, that successful people have also experienced failure.

Perhaps, so far many people have only seen others as someone who is successful at this time.

Have you ever tried to find out or ask people who are now successful about the failures or difficulties they experienced before success?

Of course, they have been in the hardest conditions in their lives and passed the struggle phase. The difference is the time, there are people who are successful in a short time. However, there are also those that take years to be successful.

Don't be embarrassed when experiencing failure


If you have experienced failure in the field of education, for example getting a bad grade, not passing an exam, being rejected when applying for college, and so on. Or someone failed to get a job or in business. When you experience failure, there is no need to be ashamed and consider failure as a disgrace that must be hidden.

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It may be difficult to accept failure, negative views from society and friends when someone fails. Sad, as long as it doesn't continue to deteriorate and even blames itself and doesn't want to fight anymore. If you need time to stop struggling for a moment, use that time to calm down and evaluate yourself to be a better person.

How to Rises after a failure?

Failure is a shameful, but valuable experience in your life. By experiencing failure, indicating that you have tried. From the failures and processes that you have passed, there will be valuable lessons and experiences that you get. You will not get that experience if you succeed immediately.

Perform a self-evaluation, the extent of the efforts that you have done so far. Increase your business again and keep trying, don't forget to balance it with prayer and the belief that you can succeed someday. Look for friends who can provide energy and positive support.

Not a friend who will judge you when you fail. Listen to suggestions from your friends, but that doesn't mean you have to follow all their suggestions.

If you are currently experiencing a downturn due to failure, remember you are not alone. Many people are struggling and rising from failure. You must also be able to rise from the failure that you experience.


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merge your hard work with intelligence to be successful plus don't fall to give up fall to keep going and follow your instinct no matter!!

That is very hot topic, I remember as young people it was for ourselves really shameful to caught ourselves on own failure, nevertheless with the time our views and values are changed and we understand that this is very human to make failure but in many cases it is important to report them in time and to correct. That is something that I believe the young people need to be taught. That nobody is safe from doing failure and only hte strong individuals can openly accept their failure. Thank you @khanza.aulia for the moment to think about it. Cheers, @Stef1

I experienced the same thing in my teens, but there were many lessons that I got at that time.
All failures and mistakes used to be a weapon to achieve success in the future.

thank you for your kind words.

Dalam kehidupan ini, semua kita memiliki pasang surut dalam hidup, kadang-kadang kita di atas, dan kadang-kadang pula kita bisa berada di bawah. Dan kadang itu bisa menjadi sangat menegangkan dan melelahkan untuk mengikuti dunia di sekitar kita dan berusaha menjadi "cukup baik" di mata orang lain. Kita semua pernah mengalami hari-hari ketika kita mulai meragukan diri kita sendiri dan kemampuan kita dan mulai mempertanyakan apakah kita benar-benar bernilai sesuatu untuk orang banyak.
Saya sependapat dengan aduen " Melihat kegagalan sebagai langkah awal menuju kesuksesan!"

Kita manusia tidak dapat tumbuh dalam hidup tanpa melakukan usaha, dan perjuangan yang merupakan jalan utama menuju kesuksesan.
Dan itu semua tidak mudah untuk melakukan ribuan pikiran mengelilingi pikiran. Ketika kita mencapai pada kesimpulan kapan pun telah meninggalkan kita di belakang dalam balapannya. Jadi untuk menangkapnya waktu yang tepat harus dipahami dalam mencapai kesuksesan.

Terimakasih atas motivasi yang sangat bermanfaat hari ini.

Luar biasa bang, terimkasih sudah berbagi motivasi :)

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Thank you so much, appreciated your support :)

Nicely written. Couldn't agree more. It is hard and sometimes depressing when we fail. But what matter is for us to get ourself together and move forward learning from the failure.

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Yes, each person has their own way to grow their motivation, with the same goal of achieving successes.

hehe, thank you for stopping by! :)

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thank you so much!

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yes i agree with you @khanza.aulia
with out failure you never get success.
failure teaches us lesson of success.
Amazing post my friend..

hehe thank you very much for your kind words

Tidak mudah untuk mendapatkan sebuah kesuksesan, disana setiap orang harus berusaha dengan keras dan konsisten di dalam nya,...

Sangat setuju bang, terimakasih :)

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