Hello Steemians,
I hope everyone is doing good. If not, Don't Worry. Look back into your life and see the answer is already there.

And I mean it. Life presents us with many challenges. Challenges that seems impossible to overcome and sometimes you crumble under the pressure. But it doesn't have to be that way. Why do you think many wise men have compared the life to a school or exam or test.. if the life was that difficult they might have compared it to a meteor heading towards you, or you locked under the depth of the ocean, or you being bitten by a king cobra or something of that sort. But no!!! they have compared life to a school, an exam or an institution or a game or something that is doable. And just like school, the answers are already available to your problem. You just have to look for it, Sometimes it's inside you. And at other times you have to look outside the box and the box is you.

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Not so long ago I was facing a challenge which seems impossible, it drove me almost nuts and I was so stranded at that time. But people around me showed me the way. I had been looking for the solution inside me when all I had to do was "Ask". After what felt like a battle for ages I gave up and almost surrendered, And then I asked for help and guidance. I was surprised to see so many around me coming forth with advice. Not help, but advice. Advice from the wise and from the fools. That is all. take the advice which you see fit to the problem and get on with it. Remember I mentioned fit to the problem and not to your comfort. It's easy to confuse these two. One seems doable with some results while the other seems very difficult with better chances of results. Both the options were doable but we as a human have this tendency to go after the options which are easy rather than the one which provides better chances of success. So after the half-assed attempt, we will give up. Again human nature and old habits. That's what happened to me too. And sad thing is that it will drive the person further away from the family, friends, and other well-wishers.

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There is also the problem of Ego, Many idiots like me would name it as self-esteem but that's completely wrong. A simple scenario, imagine you are stuck in quicksand and you tried your best to get out of there but you couldn't. Then, there is a passerby who may or may not be able to help you out. Would you call for help or would you think that this problem doesn't concern him? That is exactly what happens in your life too the problem that you are right now is none of the others concern, but, it wouldn't hurt to ask for a little help or guidance.

And I know very well that how much it stings when someone comes and say "Come on buddy, No problem is too big" without them having any context about the problem. You might wanna punch them in their stupid face. (Don't do that, Never do that), Just smile and ask them what can be done. If you like the answer act on it and if you didn't like the answer just let it go. You have to focus on the problem at hand and don't worry about the jackass... He is not a problem but a nuisance, let him be. And there is a truth to that no problem is too big its our stupid brain which reacts and make it appear big.

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And remember getting help is not a weakness; but a step towards becoming strong.

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