What Would You Do? ... Time to Imagine

in #life8 years ago (edited)

There's been a recurring theme in recent conversations I've had, due to my plans to "retire" in a new location. As each person wants to explore with me what I'm planning to do, the conversation naturally turns to their own plans for what they would do if they were ready to choose whatever they want right now.

People spend so much of their lives just figuring out what they NEED to do that they don't get all that skilled at planning out what they WANT to do. Yet sorting out what we want is a huge aspect of getting what we want. It may even be the largest part of it that comes down to us, rather than being the domain of Spirit to create.

Our intellects want to make things out to be about planning the HOW. When we can't see how to do something with our limited linear thinking, we block ourselves from even knowing WHAT we want. That's why people are stumped sometimes. It isn't that they don't somewhere inside themselves have clarity about what they want. It's that their mind is blocking them from awareness of it because it doesn't see how it can make it happen for them.

We spend so much time trying to do Spirit's business that we neglect to do our own!

But what if you could trust Spirit to take care of the how and you just needed to figure out the what?

What if you suddenly found you had enough money rolling in on a regular basis with no effort on your part to know that your basic needs, including travel, would be covered no matter what? What if you knew that all the information you needed to "make it work" was going to come to you with perfect timing? What if you felt loved and supported by a great power that had your back with absolutely no judgment or condemnation, true unconditional love? And what if you could let that in, allow yourself to be loved and supported just that much?

Where would you live?

Would it be one location or several?

What would you do with the bulk of your time?

Would you be engaged in a creative project or spend most of your time just hanging out in beauty (or partying)?

Would you try to contribute to the lives of the people where you are?

If so, would you primarily be contributing knowledge, financial resources, or something else?

I've recently talked to older couples who've got their game plan, complete with timeline. They've spent 25 years getting ready and know exactly what they want next. I've also talked to middle aged singles who either do or don't have a plan for the life they want, though both know they don't want what they have now.

People can become experts at knowing what they don't want, but until you know what you do want, nothing can improve.

With some people you'll have to redirect the conversation away from talk of what they don't want again and again, because they just can't get themselves out of that way of thinking on their own. It's a deep, deep rut they've dug their mental habits into.

But if you can get someone talking about what they do want, guiding them with specific questions about aspects of it, you can start to see the lights come on. That energy is the energy of creative imagination, and that's the first step in actually creating. As the song from South Pacific goes, "You have to have a dream before you can have a dream come true."

What's your dream?

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I think imagination is the most powerful tool we have to create our reality because everything around was once a figment of someone's imagination. My dream would be to help people to find their true desires and I would love to that in a house next to the beach in some relaxed place where people smile all day long....
Thank you for making me imagine that.

May your imagining come into being!

Give food, shelter and place to be to people in street situation, then seek to form an institute in which, they learn a trade, then can fend for himself. I would build school, for adults and children. In addition to offering help of psychological, moral and value formation.
With all this achieved would be happy, in a cabin in a mountain.

Sounds beautiful!

Love the concept of this post. People get stuck going around in circles working hard to buy stuff they don't need with no idea of what would actually make them happy.

One of my favorite quotes is from Sterling Hayden from his 1963 book Wanderer. It reads like something from 2018 posted in #vanlife

"I’ve always wanted to sail to the South Seas, but I can’t afford it." What these men can’t afford is not to go. They are enmeshed in the cancerous discipline of "security." And in the worship of security we fling our lives beneath the wheels of routine — and before we know it our lives are gone.
What does a man need — really need? A few pounds of food each day, heat and shelter, six feet to lie down in — and some form of working activity that will yield a sense of accomplishment. That's all — in the material sense, and we know it. But we are brainwashed by our economic system until we end up in a tomb beneath a pyramid of time payments, mortgages, preposterous gadgetry, playthings that divert our attention from the sheer idiocy of the charade.
The years thunder by. The dreams of youth grow dim where they lie caked in dust on the shelves of patience. Before we know it, the tomb is sealed.
Where, then, lies the answer? In choice. Which shall it be: bankruptcy of purse or bankruptcy of life?

Great quote. I never read that before. I would however add that people also need loving exchange, being that we are social animals. That love can be exchanged with other humans or with other forms of life, even with the Earth itself, but we wither away without it. That's another sort of bankruptcy, the myth of self-sufficiency. But otherwise, spot on!

Thanks for stopping by and leaving this great comment.

Thanks. I would also agree with that. Love was one bridge too far for the 1960's ! But some form of meaningful human connection (perhaps love is not the right word) is very important.

love this post and find it is a real resonant reflection encourager for so many of us wanting to step out into the life of our dreams. resteemed @the-hearth! xo

I'm so glad you resonate with it, and thanks so much for the resteem!

There is so much dream in being around people that cultivate love, life, joy, hope, purpose, those qualities, attributes, which are eternal, and beautiful.

That's a great way of looking at one's intentions. It's not just about what one does. It's sometimes about who one does it surrounded by and the qualities those people have cultivated in their lives! Thanks for that perspective.

Awesome, agreed, life is better that way and is more lovely that way, like your smile, relationships shines on through the storms.

Woah @indigoocean it really is a treat to find you here!

Your post touches on so many relevant points for me right now; and more than anything it keeps me in touch with the utility of visualisation and refining my intentions.

I feel I could quote and respond to 80% of what you've written. I particularly like the negative mental habits that people have become accustomed to, thinking that focusing on what they don't want is going to get them what they want.

This post reminds me of a part of the book, 'The Power of Now', where Eckhart Tolle talks about how we can't solve our egoic issues with our ego, we have to surrender to something that's above our minds, our spirit.

The questions you present are really incredible, I thank you deeply for probing these parts within myself!

What a great comment. Thanks for the mention of Tolle. You remind me of statements by Einstein as well. Thanks for stopping by.

This is just exactly what I'm thinking about today. I know that I don't want what I'm doing right now. Thanks for the advice. 🙏

I would stay exactly where I am, buy up adjoining pieces of land, build on for old age, set-up living quarters for the family that will take over the farm when we are gone. I'd also put money into amending the pastures, creating healthy hayfields, and restoring the land we buy to health. I've been dreaming of this for decades, lots of time to plan...

Sounds absolutely wonderful. I so look forward to getting to that point where I'm able to focus on building on a foundation already there. Though I'm also looking forward to this next period of building the foundation itself. 😀

Hit the nail on the head! Enjoyable read :)

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