Traveling with AIDAprima - arrival

in #life6 years ago (edited)

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I decided to go with my 2nd son (3.5 years) old on a cruise. Just him and me. First of all my oldest son still has pre-school and he is so much enjoying "fasnacht/karneval" so that I didn't want to take that away from him. Today is the big parade with all his friends.
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And than it is also not easy to be the second oldest. He always wants to be like his older brother and is competing with him in all possible ways at the moment with just one disadvantages: being 2.5 years younger. So that can be quite frustrating some times. So I wanted to give him some "dad" time and get him out of the regular routine into a new environment.

Some people find that odd going on vacation without wife and probably everybody on this trip thinks that I am divorced. I love my wife very much and one thing is certain - it is the last reason that I wouldn't want her to be here with us. But In my point of view there is nothing so powerful than time for two. With your partner but also with your kid especially if he/her has a lot of brothers or sisters. That time can change and heal a lot and has for sure a significant influence on the relations between those two individuals spending the time together. And in my feeling that was something my son just needed right now.

As all of this was very spontaneous the only chance was to go on a cruise around the canarian islands. I did that trip before and have been on several cruises before but actually I didn't care about the where and how to go on vacation as only the time with my son mattered to me. And with him you can have fun everywhere.

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The flight from Zurich was quite early - 6 a.m. so we had to get up at 3:30 to get things ready and drive to the airport on time. The flight was perfectly alright - of course my son was so thrilled going on holiday that he didn't sleep until 30 min before landing. Timing could have been better but at least he got some sleep.

Arriving at the ship was amazing - those things are really huge. My son first thought that is a building and was looking for the ship. And he is right - it is not so easy to distinguish especially as those ships usually leave the harbor late in the night (when he is already sleeping) and arriving at the next harbor very early in the morning (before anybody is awake). That can also confuse some adults not to imagine how difficult it is for a 3.5 year old to get the right picture.

We arrived at 11 a.m. at the check-in and were told that the official check-in time is 2 p.m. That is something you don't want to hear being on the road with a small kid sind 4 a.m. in the morning. But that was the first surprise I got: 10 minutes later they just opened check-in for early arrivals so I felt really taken care of.

Being on board I already assumed that my room won't be ready and that was fine for me. I check with reception (they started to introduce robots to make waiting in line a fun thing) and indeed the room was not ready yet. No problem - lets go for lunch and than walk around the ship. While grabbing some food I received a text saying: your room is ready. That was around 12:30. I was simply amazed as I even has asked for a notification.
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The only bitter pill to swallow is the security training everybody needs to attend to. Yes - everybody even 3.5 year old kids who got up at 4 a.m. in the morning need to come to the training at 9 p.m. (+1 hour time shift). So that was difficult but probably not easy to plan differently.

So my impression of the first days was fantastic. The organization (on-boarding wise) was just excellent and better than a few years ago. That is something which makes me feel taken cared of - something I want in my vacation.

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Awesome trip report! Cant wait to read more.

travels are increase our knowledge @faunger thanks for shareing your travel moments dear

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Enjoy your vacationn sir! We'll deserved.

So beautiful a father and son tour :-)
I wish you safe journey and look forward to read more from onboard.

Thank you @lichtblick. Will try to write some more when he is sleeping.

Btw it's f...... Cold at the canaries

I'm glad I took my coat 😀
When are you in puerto del Rosario for a meet and greet? 😁

Yes - it is really windy - luckily we have a wind jacket with us.

We are already at Gran Canaria - so past Forteventure. Would have been fun.

Finally someone who does the same as I do! I also, besides the fact that I like to do fun things with my wife @missmau and my daughter, like to take my daughter for fun things to do. Just me and her! We always have such an enjoyable time! I think it is making our father-daughter relation super great! Also, great idea to take your kid on a real holiday! I have taken mine until now only for a day out. But might rethink our upcoming event to be spanning more days!

Now I get a bit confused - wasn't @missmau the wife of @exyle? Does he now she is married to you as well? ;-)))

Great to hear that I am not the only one doing such things. I really think that enriches a relationship and brings it to another level. As fun as things are with all together you need the mix of both family time and 1on1 time.

I hope to read about your upcoming event with your daughter!

Where you from by the way?

You made me laugh man! @bkdbkd is the girlfriend of @exyle. @missmau is my wife at least as far as I know. What a nice confusion! Lol. We do all live near each other as we are all good friends. And we live in the Netherlands.

Here we go - that is the far more simple answer ;-) I know Netherland allows a lot but one wife with two husbands? ;-))

Ok now that we clarified that - than you are the one responsible bringing exyles wife onto steem? Have I sorted the puzzle correctly?

Close, but no dice! ;)

The right order is as follows....@exyle was first to discover this Steemit platform, shortly thereafter his lady @bkdbkd joined Steemit. 1 year later @exyle convinced me to join. And last but not least, one year after that I convinced my wife @missmau to join.

Make sense now? ;)

Oh man...I can't believe 3.5 year old has to go to security training! That makes no sense to me. So sweet of you to take time for just the two of you. I've traveled to so many places but still haven't been on a cruise yet!

Thank you for the kind words!
You should go some time - cruise is really fun and a great way to explore different locations in a short time with no stress at all!

Wow, this must be awesome! It is also the right age that he will remember stuff, might even be one of his most vivid memories if you ask him in 20 years!

That 1-on-1 time between a parent and the son/daughter is extremely important. It is so much different.

Last year I took my mom to Florence for a weekend in May and my dad to Lisbon in October. It was amazing. They are together and happily maried but only by being with just one of them, I broke a bit of the parent-child relationship and got a different bond (friends/people bond ish) for a few days.

I would recommend everybody to make sure to have some one-on-one time with one of their parents or one of their children. You are setting a great example @famunger!

Thanks for your kind words and for sharing your experience which I find a very good idea. Anyway life is short - take the time and get to know your parents (a part of yourself)!

Wow, I wish I had such opportunity,to hang out with my dad like this, though he's no more... Nice one @famunger. Kids sure love experiences like dis.

My son first thought that is a building and was looking for the ship.

Hahahahha, he's right. The ship looks more like a building than what it is.
I wish u guys safe trip back and have fun while there

I hope also he will appreciate the time - dead always remembers us how precious time is.

Thanks for the wishes.

i think its a great ship......i impressed to see your post......i hope everybody like your post...thanks for shear it..

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