The Opinion Of Others - How To Stop Worrying About Other People's Opinions About Us
Everyone in life eventually find the opinion of other people about us.
It's because of something what we do, how we look and so. There will always be someone who will be against our decision and impose its own.
Often such other opinions related to how we are doing, especially if it is something different from the usual. Then people will comment on it and impose their opinion, just because it is different from what they are doing!
Such thinking we have to learn to ignore, we must not allow ourselves to be touched, to hurt us or the worst, to give up what we do and we want to be!
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Everyone wants to be liked and accepted in society, wanted to achieve some of their goals, look different than others ... but many of us are spending too much time and energy worrying about what other people think. In this way you impose inferiority complex and makes it difficult life because you can not focus on the real problems.
As we grow, we learn and distinguish our thoughts and emotions of others, but many of us continue to desire, even beg, for a positive affirmation from others. This can cause serious problems when it comes to our integrity and happiness.
I do not care about what others will think of us is totally exhausting, but also unnecessary. It is important to know that other people's opinion on something which we can not influence, which is why we need to stop worrying about it.
People who are very self-critical are also very sensitive to other people's criticism that "they go on their behalf." Criticism of others they only confirm their, otherwise erroneous, concept that are not good enough and that they are less worthy.
We can not expect that other people will think and act like us, or that we will always please everybody, when they all have different tastes and preferences. This type of external evaluation indicates the uncertainty that lies in the background and it reduces our sense of self-esteem and self-confidence.
How to deal with the opinions of others?
Forget about what everyone else thinks about you today. They do not think about you at all. Try to understand that this is the view of them as you watch and criticize your every move, totally made up your imagination.
Life is truly only one, and provided a brief, therefore does not need as much attention to pay to other people's opinion. People will live life worrying about the opinion of other people will at some point begin to complain that a lot of missed opportunities and things that they did, but they wanted to.
More important is to make a decision that will be positive for you and that will make you happy, but to think what he would say "neighbors" (whatever that decided, they will already find "material" to you gossip).
What matters is how we perceive ourselves, not how others perceive us. Make a list of your qualities that you love and at times read them to remind and on their good side. In this way, your confidence will grow and you will be able to focus on more important things.
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Learn mantra: What other people think about me, do none of my business!
Breathe, repeating his mantra, and then point the excess energy to something positive and useful as otherwise you love to do or try new creative activities such as art, dance, yoga, sports, music, etc.
Life is too short for those who disturb your mood and self-confidence. If someone wants in life, should, together with you, to work on your relationship. Those who underestimate you are not worth your time.
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