Not a problem at all! I'm glad you were able to find some inspiration in my words and story.

I think I was afraid of the bloke to be quite honest, it goes to show how easy it is to be mislead-ed and influenced even when my beliefs are no where near linked to his. If I continued to let him talk and go on like he did around me, more and more things would seem acceptable, purely because of the brains ability to soak up the information around us and link the familiar with what's acceptable. I should of been a stronger man to challenge him.

I'm the same, I have a couple friends who are part of the community and they are awesome.We go out to the gay bars in Newcastle whenever we are out with them, always a fun night out. The musics always quality and as long as you are polite and can be respectful if anybody gropes or tries to come onto you, it never gets out of hand. And yes, it's not just guys who grope girls in clubs. Their is a societal problem that effects the type of people who believe groping and throwing yourself onto people is acceptable.

The upvote payouts don't really matter so much to me right now, I'm more interested in comments and feedback on my posts so we can spark healthy discussion and make better connections! Thanks for stopping by anyway Robert, great to hear from you again :)