Hm, I don't know him very well so I can't say much. But really, the ' masculine' thing is bullshit. ( quote from my black friend) Black girls are masculine. ( quote from my white ex) White girls are masculine.
( quote from some Korean boys .) Korean girls are masculine! Japanese girls are better.
When will it stop? Let us be who we are , and we stay strong as who we are :) Thanks for sharing your experience, I felt like you healed my scar.