Wow...have you lived my life? When I was a teenager I dated a half-chinese half-white dude. I'm white. I also got the "white girls are too masculine" so I tried to change myself to seem more Asian (submissive etc.) in order to make him happy also by not cutting my hair. This got him all the more angry. He ended up marrying one of the Asian stereotypical girls and I Iaughed because it was an arranged marriage through his mother's side of the family. Long story short, she got tired of him, left him and married someone else from I believe to be a middle-eastern background. So, I don't know which side of him was talking to me all those years ago but after your post I'm now wondering if it was his Canadian side.