oh wow! thanks! Yes well that sux if thats what people think because I can assure you my postings are 100% legit and yes, I really am just trying to tell my story, from a 'guy-thats-wearing-6-inch-patent-black-high-heels perspective'.

I will take it as a compliment :))

Thanks for helping, and I like the de-construction - i have never thought about it that way, so thanks for giving me a new perspective, because i still cant work it out myself either lol xo