"Your Dream Life Doesn't Happen by Accident"

Do you know what your dreams are? Do you have goals in place to make those dreams come true? Do you eat, sleep and breath those goals? If not, then why do u expect your life to be so great?

You may think this sounds crazy but if you ask 10 people what there goals and dreams are, 9 if not all 10 of them won't have a real answer. Sure, they will give you some shitty answer off the top of their head, but with no real thought behind it. Generic answers like "to live on the beach" or "to be rich and famous" but very rarely do you get an answer that was honestly thought about prior to the question. And that's the entire problem, people don't even know what they want!

Would you ever take a road trip without a map? NO. So why do you try to navigate through life without dreams and goals? Do you want to go through life feeling lost? I know I didn't like that feeling, it made me stressed out and unhappy in life.

You wouldn't enter a competition without training, would you? In that training would be a plan of attack to win the competition, right? Well, why would you put more thought and effort into a competition then you do your own life!?!
Attack your life and you will get the things you want.

I was saying goodbye to one of my life long friends the other day and he kept saying how lucky i am to be able to go live my dream. I asked him what his dreams were and he didn't know!? I asked him what his goals in life were, again he did not know!? So I asked him how he expected his dreams to come true if he doesn't even know what they are? The look in his eyes said it all, he had never even thought about it. I said to him "your dream life doesn't happen by accident my friend."

I guess like most people he expected some kind of miracle life to just fall in his lap with out any planning at all!?! You know, like winning the lottery! Unfortunately that doesn't happen for basically anyone. The only way to get there is to change your life today and start working towards your dreams with goals. Small goals, big goals, daily goals, weekly goals and yearly goals! That is what I did and it eventually paid off.

Funny thing is no one seems to remember that while they were out drinking every weekend and having fun for the last year that I was at home, on the grind. They think that it was "luck" that I lost 40 lbs and got into shape, because they weren't there with me working out every fucking morning. They don't know that it has been more than a year since I ate fast food, and that I started eating clean, organic food. It's like they think I just woke up and someone handed me my dream life! That is not the case at all. In fact, that's the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Everything good in life comes with work. If it were easy everyone would have it.

The problem with life is people think it's suppose to be easy. So they sit around waiting for something big to happen, but that thing doesn't just happen, you have to make it happen and people seem to forget that.

If you want something you have never had before, you have to be willing to do things and go places that you have never done and gone before.

If you seriously want your dreams to come true you have to think about it all the time! You have to talk about it constantly, you have to write down goals every day, because doing these things will help you get there. You have to think about it every single day and don't give up, never give up.

I am living proof that living your dream life IS possible, unfortunately it isn't going to just fall into your lap one day, YOU have to MAKE it happen!

"Peace, love and all that hippie shit"