Pillars of a Successful Home: Love, Patience, and Trust

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INTRODUCTION

Hello there steemians how are you all doing today I hope all is well and I'm so happy to welcome you all to my blog, today I will be taking part in an amazing contest organised by @chant titled "Pillars of a successful home"

In my today's entry I will be discussing about my understanding of a successful home and how it greatly contribute to the wellness of the society, it's contribution and lastly the impact of a broken home on the society

Like we have all been taught right from our primary school days that the family is a childs first social group which is responsible in moulding the child to grow up and be good citizen in the society

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WHAT IS YOUR UNDERSTANDING OF A SUCCESSFUL HOME?

What I understand about the term a successful home is that, a successful home is a home who has successfully carried out their basic responsibilities and can be further explain as a home that is built base on God principles and values

A successful home is a home who have stayed together through tough times and are always there for each other in the time of need, a successful home is also a family that sees beyond each other flaws and look forward to seeing each other grow and never for once sec reveal their hidden secrets to anyone

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DO YOU AGREE THAT A GOOD SOCIETY IS DETERMINED BY THE NUMBER OF SUCCESSFUL HOMES BUILT?

Yes I strongly agree with the fact that a good society is determined by the number of successful homes in our society, since each and every member of the society comes from a family being the first social group for every child

And if a family raises their children in a reckless way by exposing them to violence and the use of fawl languages then the society will be filled with such mentioned characteristics

While a family that raises their children following good values and teachings, good morals and discipline in ensuring that there grow up to become good and useful citizens to the society, then such a society with such families can be said to be a good society.

APART FROM THE THREE PILLARS ABOVE, STATE AND EXPLAIN SOME OTHER PILLARS YOU BELIEVE CAN CONTRIBUTE TO A SUCCESSFUL HOME.

Some of the other pillars aside from the listed once that I think and believe can contribute to a successful home and there are;

• Tolerance
• Cooperation and understanding
• Transparency
• Support

TOLERANCE

Any family that their members are able to exhibit the habit of tolerating their members are most likely to be term a successful family, tolerance is very important in a family setting cause members especially the seniors in terms of siblings should always ignore and over look their junior siblings flaws

Generally speaking tolerance is very much needed to be able to build a successful home as it helps family members to be able to get along well together by avoiding unnecessary arguments

COOPERATION AND UNDERSTANDING

This two are very much needed in a family as cooperation helps family members to be able to get along just fine which causes them to be able to understand each other especially during hard times thereby willing tostand by each other side no matter the situation

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TRANSPARENCY

This is very much needed in a family as family members are expected to have real love for each other and also try and be transparent with each other by letting one person's problem to become a general problem which there will all work together to solve it as a family

SUPPORT

Family members should be willing to support each other each time the need arises, there should always be ready to be there for its members for example if one member of the family is struggling with financial problems the other members should be willing to put out a helping hand in other to help relieve the other off the burden, cause when one succeed all has succeeded

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WHAT ARE THE IMPACTS OF A BROKEN HOME ON SOCIETY?

When talking of the impact of a broken home on ou society, that one I'm pretty sure that it's happening almost everywhere in our today's world as we see some people in our community behaving like animals and doing all sort of reckless act

Therefore in a case like this we shouldn't blame them too much as it is a result of a broken home in which there came out from for example if a child comes out from a family were the father always beats up the mother or the mother always talk back and insults the father the children will in turn grow up to do the same which is very bad

Also a divided or separated family which is very much common in our society today which has resulted in living the children untrained or half train causing them to find it difficult to be able to blend in with other members of the society

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A house divided against itself, can never stand}

CONCLUSION

This will be the end of my entry and I will like to add that it's important for parents to try as much as possible to train their children in the right way that they should grow so that when there grow old they won't depart from it, thank you all for going through my post and remain bless

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