Steemit Engagement Challenge S4-W1 | My view on Cyber Bullying - by @amryksr | Burnsteem25
Cyber bullying is an act which is an act or violence, whether it is intimidation carried out in cyberspace or the internet. Cyber bullying threats can be in the form of threats via email, social networks or websites. I have encountered various kinds of cyber bullying, whether it is spreading slander, uploading pornographic content or making fun of them.
The perpetrators of cyber bullying vary, whether it is to humiliate the victim or have other intentions. Cyber bullying is definitely done intentionally and there is intention and planning. If cyber bullying is carried out continuously, it can cause psychological disturbances to the victim and will kill the victim's self-confidence.
The characteristics of cyber bullying are that there is no physical violence, utilizing telecommunications networks and between victims and perpetrators there is very little physical contact. The form of cyber bullying is in the form of spreading false news, sending messages with harsh words to victims, spreading photos or videos of those who do it, and many other forms of cyber bullying.
When using social media, it is certain that cyber bullying will haunt us, both now and in the future. There is no story that we will not experience cyber bullying, not today, tomorrow or the day after that we can experience it.
To be honest, I have experienced cyber bullying on social media and it happened a few years ago and this is not the first time I have experienced it, but I have recorded up to 4 times I have experienced cyber bullying. As for being the perpetrator of cyber bullying, I have never done it, because such actions can damage the image of others and I keep that kind of thing away.
As I described above, I have experienced cyber bullying and it happened on social media Facebook. At that time I was still unfamiliar with Facebook and did not often operate Facebook at that time. Until one day a friend contacted me and said that my profile photo and facebook page had been installed and posted pornographic images.
Without waiting long I tried again to get my facebook security key back and asked a friend for help to log back in and the facebook account hacking occurred up to 4 times and when the account hacking occurred cyber bullying also occurred. And cyber bullying happened because I clicked on a URL shared by someone else. Arena at the time I was curious about the URL shared by other people.
After I experienced cyber bullying, I was depressed and reluctant to meet friends. Even though I didn't do obscene posts on my Facebook, I'm still embarrassed to meet other friends. Even though my friends have no intention of cornering me, they even want to motivate me with what happened to me.
I was depressed by what happened, but slowly I reconnected with friends and they accepted me and instead they encouraged me back. I need time to be able to mingle with friends due to cyber bullying and I realized the effects of cyber bullying have an impact on mental health.
I realize on Steemit it's very safe, even though it's still comfortable but don't trust it too much, because if it's already connected to the internet network and we can't secure it by ourselves in the end it's dangerous too. Even though currently no human can memorize passwords from steemit with a combination of numbers and letters and a long password.
So far I'm sure, steemit is still safe for me and there has been someone who wants to do a hack by sharing the URL in the comments of my post. Because with existing experience I ignore the URL. That takes experience and the experience that happens becomes a big lesson so as not to fall into the same hole. If we still fall into the same hole, then we are the most stupid people by not being the experience as the next lesson.
From existing experience, it becomes a valuable lesson and never to believe in what is new. Because new things are not necessarily true and it could be that friends or people closest to us are perpetrators of cyber bullying. Because they can also be jealous of us, then they will do cyber bullying. Never trust people who want to get closer to us, because most of them get closer with a certain purpose.
For advice, never believe in anything new, but arm yourself with technology. If we don't understand technology, we can become victims of cyber bullying. Of course at this time we must protect ourselves to avoid cyber bullying.
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For that I invite other friends to be able to participate in the Challenge held by Steem Cameroon - Steemit Engagement Challenge - Season 4 (Week 1). I invite @liasteem, @husaini, @jufrimj, @ayijufridar, @zainalbakri, @sofian88, @musdezal and other friends. Thank you admin and community moderators for the time and opportunity given and thank you to SC01 and SC02 for their support so far.
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This my dear, is a very valuable lesson, it is gold to me. People tend to trust everything they see and hear via the TV and that has lead most people into being fraud. Thanks for sharing with me.
We are too fast, especially when we are tempted by prizes, but in the end we are misleading.
Very true.
Thank you @sahmie for taking the time to visit my post.
I agreed with what you have said, that cyber bullying is intentionally done by people for selfish interest. Honestly, the rate at which people are been confronted on internet is very high most especially teenagers. Indeed you have written a very nice post about what cyber bullying is all about. Best of luck to you.
There are many ways people do cyber bullying. But we must know how to anticipate it.
You're wrong friend, I can memorize my steemit password from posting the key to the master key, this is a form of my alertness to the threat of losing my keys either because the cellphone is lost, damaged or whatever.
I'm glad to know that you've gone through the days where time seems to stop and the evil eye fills your mind, nowadays cyberbullying will be punished and fined money, so when this happens to us we should continue to report in order to provide a deterrent effect for the perpetrators.
Good luck for the contest brother...
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If you can memorize it's amazing, because when I see the steemit password, I will be even more confused. I appreciate when you can do it.
Terima kasih atas ucapan baik anda
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Anda orang yang baik, maka anda akan selalu bertemu dengan orang baik pula.
I am sorry for that, I can say you have really suffered on that particular social media. Most cyber bullying happens on Facebook and sometimes on WhatsApp
For now I continue to anticipate so as not to experience cyber bullying again. Hopefully it doesn't happen to me again.
Yes it is of selfish interests that people go about with this sole called cyber bullying which is bad. You have done well tp have participated. Goodluck
Hopefully people who do cyber bullying are aware. Because what they have done to others will affect them someday. The law of karma applies.
Our biggest crime is that I am a victim of bullying but there is no action against the perpetrator. As a result, he gets the courage to commit more crimes. We should ensure that the culprits are given appropriate punishment.
Yes, that's right, friends, cyber bullying perpetrators are rampant without any action from the authorities.
I agree with you, cyber bullying is indeed very troubling for us, I also experienced it, my fb was hacked and I can't take it anymore until now
It is very difficult to track down cyber bullies. Sometimes I get restless to see this and it is very unfortunate when the victims of cyber bullying are children.
Yes, I agree, regardless of that may it be the best for you in this contest🙏
Thank you for your support. I really enjoyed listening to it.
Sometimes a single episode of bullying is enough to disturb the mental status of an individual so much so that some individuals may succumb to bullying by resorting to suicide. It depends upon the mental stability and capability of an individual deal with the pressure of such a kind.
Behavioural disturbances like anxiety, depression and frustration are the primary effects of bullying. Itnis normal to be depressed in such situations but it is good to hear that you recovered.
Good luck
It's a shame if the victims of cyber bullying can't control themselves, they might kill themselves because they can't stand what they are facing.
I did get depressed and it didn't last long, and I was trying to get up.
The very interesting contest, thank you very much for inviting me @amryksr.
I hope you can join this Challenge bg @ayijufridar. Because I believe you can.
Cyber Bullyng tidak boleh kita anggap sepele, karena apabila sudah menjadi korban efeknya sangat fatal, oleh karena itu kita semua harus saling bahu-membahu untuk kampanyekan Stop Cyber Bullying. Ini juga banyak terjadi di kalangan pelajar.
Iya benar pak. Kita sering percaya dengan bahasa yang manis, padahal akhirnya menyesatkan.