The true women inside all of us

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Lately I found myself to be very emotional and tearful.
Can it be because I will be closing a chapter in my life in a few weeks or is it because of the unknown waiting for me?

It made me wonder…

“A woman is an adult female and an adult female is a female who is an adult”.
This according to aunty Google. Now, I don’t know about you but I am totally confused.

The best description I heard of a woman was from one of my Sunday school pupils when we did a lesson on Adam and Even.

She said; “A woman is a lady who sits when she “wee” and cry while she does it”. At the time I couldn’t help to wonder what happens in their family.
Today I realize that there are no truer words than these spoken by a 10 year old.

What are the characteristics of a woman?

Women are different to men in so many aspects and I am not referring to physical aspects. I am referring to those things that labels us to go into the box “woman”.

We are modest, tender, empathetic, gentle, sensitive, devoted, supportive, responsible, helpful, kind, sympathetic, caring, soft, warm, cooperative, trustworthy, nurturing, loving and emotional human beings.

There you go! I am sure you will be able to add a few more.

What are values or qualities of being a woman?

There will be a few different answers to this question especially if you have to ask the male gender.
For me the value of being a woman is what is rested in those points I’ve mentioned under characteristics.

If you have to ask me what is the TRUE value of a woman there is only one answer and that is INTEGRITY. Women lead by example, true to their word and with honesty.

What is expected from us as women?

It is expected of women not only to be good partners or wife’s but also to be mothers, organizers, designers, health experts, teachers, chefs, re-creators, economists, bookkeepers, problem solvers, good listeners, disciplinarians, taxi drivers, artists, fixers, charity organizers, walking encyclopedias, those “know all” person in the home.

What makes woman the best specie on earth?

Have you noticed?

🌻 How a woman can bring smiles to faces?

🌻 How a woman brightens up a room when she walks in?

🌻 How a woman can bring calm to a storm?

🌻 How a woman can make feelings better?

🌻 How a woman can make things go away?

Woman are special and that cannot be denied!

What I have come to learn over the last few weeks is that women are allowed to have weaker moments.

• We are allowed to feel down
• We are allowed to make mistakes
• We are allowed to feel vulnerable and
• We are allowed to cry.

So often it is by allowing this that we discover that true women which was hiding inside.

Next time you want to cry when you watch a movie cry. If you feel like slamming a door, do it. If you want to shout, shout at the top of your voice.

Do whatever you need to do to discover that true women locked up inside you and lets inspire other to do the same.

“Figure out who are you separate from your family. Find who you are in this world and what you need to feel good alone. I think that’s the most important thing in life. Find a sense of self. With that, you can do anything else.” —Angelina Jolie, actress

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