Journey to aesthetics part10: 5 attributes of an aesthetic lady//25%beneficiary to @null

Hi beautiful steemians in the house, its @kay-owobia with updates to our "journey to aesthetics". So I officially tell you that our updates will be coming up every Sunday but may switch if circumstances eventuates. Without further ado, let's get to today's great step in our "journey to aesthetic" as we'll talk about 8 outward attributes of an aesthetic lady.
Before going to the nitty-gritty of today's episode, when you hear "aesthetics" what comes to your mind?🤔

Well, its definitely not that 8 figured model on a bone straight and pencil heels clinched on expensive wristwatches and accessories and probably reeks a rose garden.

What do we really mean?

Just what we are about getting to; put on on your sit belts and enjoy the ride while we examine 5 attributes of aesthetics women here in steemwomen'sclub. Here we go;

• Time conscious:

I'm yet to see that one person who loves delays and hates promptness.
Do you have an appointment by 9.30, but you are not set by 9.00?
Waow! Because your chances of meeting up is slim especially if you have to go some long distance to cover before you get there.
Many others do not even ready till 9.30

That's no good attribute for an aesthetic lady. Who ever you may be going to meet or whatever event it is. Onlookers won't see you like any serious fellow but rather one without discipline and respect especially when you keep the other party waiting.

But what if eventualities eventuate?

It's very courteous, respectful and thoughtful to let whoever's you are about to meet know you will be running late, and please do not go into long details whether it's on phone or in person. " sorry I'm late I got stuck up in traffic" or "sorry I got a call from my daughters school so I had to run down" is enough apology and explanation for showing up late
Be time conscious

• Honesty

Honesty is a virtue any aesthetic lady must attend. Personally, it's one attribute I can give all for. An aesthetics woman is attractive and honesty is attractive.

Honesty isn't half truth neither is twisted truth. As an aesthetics woman you need to appreciate honesty in everything.
Telephone lies doesn't show aesthetics-"I am in spain on phone but actually in japan in reality" is not canny of that ideal aesthetics woman. You need to show your aesthetics in your words

• Politeness

This is a very underestimated quality but then an aesthetic person is never rude even to strangers but kind and cheerful.
I know some people have the idiosyncrasies that having an aura of meanness would make them respected. Nah, nah..absolutely not

Being rude just makes you cruel and very unattractive, you'll have less people around you'll and miss many other opportunities.

When you see someone why not try giving them a warm smile instead of a tense atmosphere that'll make them feel nervous or uneasy around you.

• living below your means

Just like I said earlier, aesthetics isnt luxury or external beauty. You are still beautiful in that Ankara and flat cover shoes and ghanaweaves. You don't need a Gucci or Adidas or louis Vuitton to complement your beauty.

I once heard a discussion where a group of people were discussing on how to spend their salary. I seriously shook my head when I heard one say he uses up his salary and leaves other worries for other days. So I thought, what if the coming months salary is delayed?

Living below your means helps you save more, give more helping hands to others and some extra during times of need or an emergency. If you earn 80,000 in a month, why not live like someone who earns 60 or even 50?

Being luxurious doesn't add to your self respect or happiness. When you have all you need and a healthy balance of your life priorities, spiritually, physically, financially, emotionally and more trust me, you are good to go.

Well, man is insatiable, do you pray for more luxury?
Luxury makes you crave for more luxury and you end up being greedy and being a slave to riches. Why not check out the next point let's talk more about the quest for luxury.

• Life Balance

How is your work life, is it affecting your family life?
If so, that's too bad. You need a life restructure, life reform, mould and more.

I learnt a few stuffs while reading "make today count" by john c. Maxwell. You can check out his books I assure you, they are really worth it. In his book he mentioned a few ways on how to balance your work with your family.

Do not let your family suffer in the quest to impress them or give them a life of luxury. Just enough is ok.

Many parents who neglected spending time with their children has had terrible days with getting to train their children properly or even getting to know them well. Work and technology has made families live like strangers.

Do we wait and let technology sweep over and rule over us? That's no good idea, gadgets on the dinner table had denied families meaningful conversations and fun times together. So does work. Too much work and too much addiction to technology with less time for more important things is a ruin. The bible describes it as chasing after the wind. We don't want to do that I'm sure. It's much like a wild goose chase.

I really want to say much about this but let's make it in our coming edition, how do you see that?
I'm sure it's a great idea, so why not catch up with me on our next edition of journey to aesthetics, I will sure love to see you there. How about that?
See ya then. Byaaa!😘

My introduction postlink

The aesthetic series

Part one
Part two
Part three
Part four
Part five
Part six
Part seven
Part eight
Part nine